| I’m 29 and have been out of college for a few years now. Recently though I came across Conquer your Campus by Mark Redman and decided to give it a read. The first question that came to mind was: What would apply to small social circles, outside of college like say; intramural sports teams, special interest groups/ volunteer positions, etc., where there is a small band of people who come together for some mutual cause?
You see, I’m a referee for a local roller derby team. There are 40 different women on our crew ranging in age from single 20 year old college girls, to MILF’s in their late 30’s trying to keep their alpha female nature in full bloom. Defense attorneys, stoner girls, single moms, and every other type you can think of.
… and I have no idea how to handle this situation without killing all chances. SO I HAVE DONE NOTHING! After 10 months of learning the ropes as a reff, getting to know a handful of people, and trying to give off the vibe that I’m not there entirely for sex; I’m ready to make a move for one (or maybe a few?) of the more choice pics.
My question is this: how do you play the field in a small social environment ranging from 40-100 people and NOT be seen as a jerk? AKA “how to enjoy the company of woman without being black listed”
Observational case in point: I worked at a research biology station for a couple summers. Hot, smart, horny, overworked college students out in the middle of nowhere, with no consequences in the real world to make them worry about how people perceive them. What happens in the remote field stations, STAYS there. Of course in a town of 140 people there was ONE guy, who had women coming to see him so often that one girl would be waiting in the living room while the other left out the back door. And they BOTH (along with the other 4 women he was sleeping with) knew about the others. As far as personality goes, and integrity, this guy was a spineless douche by guys standards and not simply because he was successful with women.
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