It's clear (for me, and hopefully for everyone else) that beliefs can make or break your succes in being good with women. They're absolutely crucial, no doubt about it.

Normally, every PUA has his personalised set of positive beliefs - about himself, about women, about the world and so on... It's impossible NOT to have them.

However I was wondering whether there exists a set of "core" beliefs, i.e. something that is shared among virtually all PUAs. I know, we're all diferrent, but I'm sure there is something that links us, regardless of our personality and what "method" we use.

I mean, things like "I am the prize" (a.k.a. don't put her on a pedestal) or "there is no failure, there's only feedback" (a.k.a. don't get immobilised by rejections, move on and perhaps learn from them) - I think these are beliefs that are common to ALL pick-up artists, even though they may be worded differently.

I suggest we make a list of these crucial beliefs that are present in every PUA's "map of the world". I'll start by writing the above two:

- "I am the prize"
- "There is no failure, there's only feedback"

How would you continue this list?

Why do you want to be a PUA?

Is it because you want to feel loved?

If so then being a PUA will only lead to a dead end. Being a PUA is about pussy. It is not about self improvment.

Do yourself a favor and head my warning. Don't learn to be a PUA. Just learn to be more accepting of your flaws and weaknesses. Women will find you much more attractice if you can accept yourself without the make believe games and lies you tell yourself.

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Walk Hard

Being a PUA is amazing, it literately changes your entire life. After awhile of being in the game you start to interact differently with the ENTIRE WORLD around you. To answer your question here is some more beliefs to hold. "I'm comfortable around women." "I don't let women use looks or sexual power to take advantage of me." "I'm not needy and I keep my power for myself." "I deserve, I have permission, and can hold an exceptional woman." "I live in my reality and your a guest." "I'm a cause in the world not an effect, I MAKE THINGS HAPPEN." "I have no sexual hang ups." And a really big one, "I AM TOTALLY UNSELFCONSCIOUS AND COULD CARE LESS WHAT OTHERS THINK OF ME." Really it's any statement that reminds you that you are a high status male and that reminds you that hot women are in fact...HUMAN...just like you and me. Keep going and I know your life will change and you will become great.

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Time to make some women dream about us!!!

Great topic.

I disagree with magnum45 and think that being a PUA is not about pussy...getting pussy is a result...but, on the road to getting pussy, as we examine ourselves, we do find it becomes about certain core beliefs we have about ourselves, the world, and women (and even God, if you're a theist).

So allow me to contribute a few thoughts that guide me (most of these will have to do with me, and my world, less so than on girls).


1) My voice has depth, power, and resonance. it is akin to voice of God. I use it boldly.

2) When I smile, I'm a ten

3) Deep down, I'm a bad-ass. So I won't pretend to be anything else. People love my bad-ass side.

4) In any room I'm in, I'm probably the most confident guy.

5) Confidence: a firm belief in one's own powers.

6) Insist on being the politician/businessman/lawyer/writer/minister that you went into the field to become. Lesser beings with smaller destinies will try to shape you into their image of that role, but you must not allow them. Furthermore, refuse to be judged against your predecessor.

7) You choose your level of joy. Also, don't be responsible for the joylessness of others. Today, I choose to be joyful.

The Universe will always give you that which you are after, but only if you are ready for it.

9) I love my life.

10) In structure, problems and games are almost identical. Except for the level of abstraction, and of course, the perceived consequences.

11) In structure, problems and games are almost identical. Except for the level of abstraction, and of course, the perceived consequences.

12) I am the prize. They are all auditioning for my friendship.

13) Practically everything in the universe progresses according to predictable patterns, regardless to whether these patterns are known. Wise men discover these patterns and exploit them.

14) Anything can be learned.

15) I eventually succeed at anything I put my mind to.

16) Never ever, never ever, never ever settle. It way be the gravest of all sins.

17) if you don't get somewhat excited about yourself, who will get excited about you?

18) By and large, you're only as successful as your systems.

19) Destiny pulls us towards while tradition pulls us back

20) By and large, we're dealing with a Personal God, who cannot be manipulated because He makes His own rules, and a Mechanical Universe, which can be manipulated because it obeys rules faithfully. Therefore, love the God, cultivate relationship with Him, and pimp the universe.

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I put these on index cards and flip through them when I need

Dude you haven't met enough women,

I know for a fact they are not all like that and there are some that are loyal and some that are not and a bit fickle unfortunately,

Depends where you are meeting them,

The girls from daygame are usually higher quality than the club girls but not all the time,

I don't agree with the God stuff, but I like that quote a lot!