I read that recently in regards to a guy who was eating out his girlfriend. I thought it was hilarious and it got me thinking about my own recent situation.

I've been falling off of my game as of late. I had what I thought was a good lead and let myself think that it was a sure thing...long story short it cooled off quick. Did I pull some AFC moves, maybe / maybe not - I'm a big believer in thinking you can do everything right and still not have things click.

But what I do know for sure that AFC thinking and not reading good quality PUA material didn't help. Basically I was doubting and being anxious over all my moves, not going out in a good, happy frame, and showing the wrong girls the wrong kind of attention. In that same time I'm reading the worst posts on this board - ones from other AFCs the kind where they are complaining about one-itis or new bies.

What I'm hoping to do going forward is keep reminding myself of the basics and really try to keep reading the good stuff. If I'm reading bad posts I really just need to move on...I'm not at a point where I need to be giving out advice.

Feel free to post good PUA blogs or resources for me to stay in the right frame.