Hey guys,
Here is my take on Inner game, enjoy
An important factor to strengthening your inner game would be your body language. Hard to see the link at this stage right? Well, consider this statement: “Feeling good on the inside means looking good on the outside” and VICE VERSA!
It is a 2-way street. So improve your body language! Walk around with your head up and chest out, shoulders back, and have slow controlled movements. Book a lesson with the SS team to fully master your body language, as this is the KEY to success with women.
Secondly, it helps to talk to yourself. Now, don’t jump ahead of me here, keep an open mind about this stuff, it may all sound a little weird and obscure, but believe me it does work! So, talk to yourself – I don’t mean having conversations with yourself like you have schizophrenia, I just mean the occasional motivating and confidence boosting comment (when you’re alone preferably, or at least talk to yourself in your head). If you’re feeling down: “C’mon dude, you’ll be fine!” “You can do this!”, getting psyched up to approach her: “I am sexy, and confident and she WANTS a guy like me to come up to her”
Anything, Anytime, Anywhere will help your confidence both in the short and long run. If you start to support yourself, then you become far less dependant on others’ validation and approval, since you now provide your own. This is essential to become almost ‘self-sufficient’.
Thirdly, you need to learn from your failings and dwell on your success. People far too often tend to dwell on their failings – Even I did and occasionally still do. They do haunt you for some time but, instead of having them depress you, look at the positives.
For example, I was at a club a few years ago, and I spotted a cute girl in a 3-set. I decided to go and talk to her, but prior to going out that night I had devised a structure for my game, a quite rigid procedure to follow through until a close.
My game plan started out with me isolating the target… Let me repeat that, MY GAME PLAN STARTED OUT WITH ME ISOLATING THE TARGET! What I didn’t realize at the time (through lack of experience) was that the target (and he friends) would strongly resist this kind of activity right off the bat. So I went into set, and pretty much said “hey, I’m just gonna borrow your friend for a sec..”
As you can imagine, I got blown out pretty damn hard, and I had to walk away with my tail between my legs. This failure has haunted me since (on and off), but I learnt to look at the positives in everything a long time ago. So a positive in this would be that I actually had the balls to go up and approach (without any alcohol or drugs or goodness knows what, to provide me with the confidence necessary).
This turns a very negative experience into a positive one.
Fourthly, you need to worry less about what others think of you. This is easier said than done, and it’s all about getting rid of any self-consciousness you may have. Be comfortable in your own skin and in your surroundings. Stop overthinking things, stop worrying about that tiny little pimple or mole there on your cheek and stop seeking validation from others. Examples of this would be like “What do you think of my shirt?” the occasional asking for advice is perfectly fine and encouraged, but if you’re doing it to make yourself feel better about wearing it, you’re doing it for validation –STOP! If YOU like it, then who cares what anyone else thinks about it!?
I love this stuff haha, I really wanna tell you guys more (about game in general), but I'm actually a member on
http://seductionsociety.forumotion.com and I’ve posted all my stuff on there.
I'd like to invite you all to come along. It's a small forum SPAM but we've definitely put quite a bit of content on it. Feel free to take from it what you will, but also try to contribute something.
Hope to see you there!
Cheers,
Fr33stylez a.k.a Peacock
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