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Hypnotica, is the whole ultimate inner game series pretty much based on repetition and the more you do the stronger your inner game will become? I want to get to the point where I dontgivafuck any more and am unshakable. Again, thanks for the reply.
Hello,
I don't know but I am coming to the conclusion that maybe I will never be at the state where I don't give a fuck. I mean that I personally will I think be afraid of approaching but that is part of my game. I guess everyone is different.
If it is any use, I think that it is just an illusion, many people would like you to think that they don't give a fuck but secretly I bet they do.
You see PUAs on youtube giving the camera a wink before they approach but honestly I bet they must be a little worried about the outcome- they just don't show it.
Maybe someone who truly doesn't care at all, doesn't care about the outcome?
I was thinking today that if I did 20 approaches today going direct the law of averages would provide me with an odd number close or two- plus if I wait for when I really don't give a fuck all the time, then I will probably be waiting forever and never do anything because i feel that I am hardwired to worry about the approach. This is OK because I simply have to take on that fear is natural and nothing unusual. and I shouldn't try to get rid of it because it will only make it worse.
take care