OK guys, I see a lot of stuff on here about the nice guy or an asshole gets more tail. Truly a confident guy will always get more tail. The more confident you are the more you will get. Not arrogant, confidant. As a woman I can tell you what a woman means about "nice guys" the term is equal to door mat, yes man, weak, or spineless. She perceives him as having no self-thought and then may verbally or mentally criticize him, immediately lose respect and completely emasculate him in her mind. I have seen this with all my girlfriends at one time or the other. I know for a fact girls will abuse the "nice guys" because they can. In her fantasy do you think she’s screwing the CEO or the yes man?

A confident guy, cocky, asshole whatever gets more because she knows she can't walk all over him. The power struggle does exist and should exist always to some extent. When you give her all the power you have lost, game over. She will continue to walk on you just because she can she will get bored of you like a toy and move on, and why because you didn't demand more. The cat string theory, when you give the power you have dropped the string. It is also ok to give some power every now and then, so she believes she’s in control she will do this for you too on occasion. If you give it you have to get it back. Don't let her have it for too long. She will think the power is hers and try to keep it. It is a delicate balance. It keeps the power play alive. Give it and take it away. Also its important to know that women love to feel sexy and the one of the best ways to do that is to be a more confident and powerful man. It will make her feel more feminine and that's sexy. Instant panty drop.

Confidence, power and charm, this combination is very toxic for women. If you have those 3 you have it all.

Y kno,my aunt used to have a cat(R.I.P Tammy).

When I was little(7),I'd used to chase it around in circles,and it would run away.I would always get exhausted,and peeved,everytime It would run away.

Later,my aunt would make me a snack,and I'd sit down and eat it;the cat comes and rubs against my leg.I was like "Wow.Cats R weerd".

Later,when I was 14,My aunt threw a party.I saw tammy,and by then,I knew that cats never respond when you just approach,AND..they go crazy for string.So I'd take my Yo-Yo,hold it by the actual yo-yo piece,and dangle the string.Tammy'd run like crazy,and I'd make her run for it.lol.Then,Tammy wouldn't leave me alone.I was her favorite person.

...she was a good cat...=(

It wasn't until 16 that I realized that women are the same as cats,in some ways.

Point is,anyone reading,edible's right.

Thankyou.

In my case, my confidence and naturally good nature were ruined by how I was mistreated by the girl. The confidence and self content being what attracted the girls to me to begin with.