| “Human truth” ~ Stoli
PART 1 (Excerpt from my book in progress)
The one social factor that is truly guaranteed to all of us is that despite some beliefs (even our own), we are each truly unique and distinguishable from one another. Unfortunately, it usually requires each of us to get past other’s “representatives”, as well as our own. Our representative appears when we meet new people. He introduces us, protects us, and is challenged with the task of helping us become accepted and liked in society. Whether it’s guys, girls, professional life or personal, your representative is first on the scene.
Our challenge as an individual is to impress the representative of those we like, in order to get closer to that individual, and that individual’s truth. The only way to accomplish this is to entice the individual to shove (her) representative out of the way, and touch her “truth”.
Animals of all sorts have fight or flight mechanisms encoded in their DNA. Women have the same characteristic.
Women are controllers of the “gate”. In front of the gate stands her representative. Beyond the gate lie three paths. One path will lead you to her bedroom; one will earn you a seat beside her as a friend; the other will take you to a forest (where you shall masturbate for the evening). The journey from the gate to the fork in the path is called “The Walk”. Two of these paths will take you to her truth. The path that she chooses to take you down is decided upon the way you engage her (and in turn, how you are received).
Women keep their gate locked and closed to men they view as a threat to their truth. She knows that her truth can either be harmed, or it can be held. Either way, women are cautious to open this gate.
Women want to enjoy the touch and companionship of men, just as much as men want the same thing from women. Sometimes I think, even more! The difference, I have already touched on; Women are keepers of the gate. This means she is the one who decides who gets to touch her truth (more on this later). Conversely, men subconsciously play the odds and approach as many women as it takes in order to touch. This is the fundamental flaw of man. Of course he can beat on gates all day/night, eventually one may be accidentally left unlocked (she’s drunk!) and he gets in. These overt actions are why it seems men want sex/companionship more than women. Not true!
Knowing this, it can be said with 100% accuracy that women are looking for sex/companionship just as men are; however, it is not shown in the same way as a man. It may not be tonight with any particular girl, but it is true.
Most women in fact stand very close to the gate, ready to unlock it. As I have grown older, I realize that women stand even closer to the gate as they too become older. Her representative grows more tired each year as he fights to protect the gate.
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