So first and foremost, I have this issue. I dated a great girl. We met a year ago this week - I had actually gone to HS with her, but we did not speak back then because we ran with different crowds. Anyway, she was great, but also a single mom, full time employee, and full time student...she didn't have time for me.

We got together after she looked me up and asked me to drinks. We had a great summer - spent lots of time together. Never fought. Sex was pretty great, though you could also tell she wasn't as wild as she may have been when she was younger...being a mom apparently takes some of that out of you, she claimed. In September, we took a trip to Dallas, stayed two days, had a great time, sex was great...the best it had been. Then two weeks later, after school began and took up all of her free time, she broke up with me. She told me I was wonderful, perfect even. A week later, she asked me to lunch because she missed me. But it was too soon and I declined. A mutual friend told me she raved about me, but didn't have time to see me. That sort of left me deflated - what else does a guy have to be if perfect won't cut it? And how does perfect get left out in the cold, with no contact, no emails, no calls....nothing? I've not tried to contact her...that would just hurt. At the time, she did say that if her life ever settled down, I would be among the first people she called. And while I know she's got 2 little kids, a full time job, and full time school for at least three years...NEVER hearing from her hurts. And I cut myself off Facebook -- I can't handle seeing her live life. She's not dating...just raising her kids. But still.

About a week ago, I started a FWB situation with a girl who is super cute, younger than me, fun in bed, but who is a secretary for one of my bosses. She's great...but yeah....that's not going anywhere fast.

I'm just sort of left wandering. The FWB lets me have my way...so some needs get met. But I want something a little more dynamic...something not hidden and not going anywhere. I sort of want to live life and feel like I'm not. Also, I work tons practicing law...so I often feel I just don't have time to meet anyone or do anything. I guess I'm in a funk!

Help!