[I'm in Highschool]
Some people throw this party once a month in a club house. I went to the 3rd one 2 months ago. Let me break down how this party works though.
1. Music is TOO LOUD to talk to anybody. I had to yell in my friends ears last time for them to hear me.
2. It gets WAY OVERCROWDED. Basically, you can't move around without touching someone.
3. Most people are high or drunk. Most of the girls, you can go up to them and start grinding on their ass and maybe even make out afterwards (Not saying ALL though).

Today is the 5th one and I'm going with a couple friends. A lot of people that I know or see around school will be going.

I know I should just go and have fun, but what are the best ways to use body language to get girls at a party? (Music doesn't allow to talk)

Are there any "techniques" you can use with body language?


Thanks in advance.

K, party was fun, I danced with a bunch of girls some cute some ugly. When I grind with them I put my hands around their stomach/waist. Sometimes I put a finger in their belly button, I'm pretty sure they like it. There was this one really cute one who was slowly pulling my hands down from her stomach to her crotch. What I wanna know is:

How can I escalate from grinding with a girl? Remember I've never met this girl before so I need a way to escalate that is comfortable for both of us. I wanna be able to kiss close from grinding.

Look in her eyes and move in and kiss her, whats the worse that can happen? This happens all the time nowadays. Is there alcohol at these parties?

There is no drugs/alcohol allowed, but i'd say more than 50% of the people come high or drunk. Thats exactly what I was thinking but escalating from grinding (I almost always grind from behind) didn't cross my mind until after the party. It was more like I went around looking for cute girls to grind with, and left - when they stopped dancing/when the song ended/when her friend stopped dancing with my friend.

So I really can't believe I didn't think about escalating, I had the perfect opportunity. Heres a field report of the girl I should've escalated with. I went up to her, asked her if she wanted to dance and she said yes. I put my hands around her curves/stomach while grinding from the back. She put her hands on mine (HUGE TURN-ON, SHES THE ONLY GIRL OUT OF THE 10+ I GRINDED WITH THAT DID THIS) After she did this I moved in a bit closer by putting my head right next to hers, she responded by leaning back and getting as close to me as possible. (OMG, CLEAR IOI'S, WHY DIDN'T I ESCALATE) After getting these IoI's, what I did do is start lowering my hands to her crotch in a slow-unnoticeable way, she was actually pulling my hands down in a slow unnoticeable way. So my hands reached her crotch and she still had her hands on mine. We grinded for a while, and i think the song ended or something like that. So I just left to find another chick.

^ I realize this is sort-of escalating. But I wanna K-close from grinding from behind. Whats the best way? Should I turn her around? Should I wait until she looks at me and go in?

Thanks in advance.

When a girl is pulling your hands toward her crotch, you are past the point of worrying about how or when to kiss her (or even what to say, for that matter). Figure out the logistics and start fucking these girls before they die of horniness!

Your boy,
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Ahhh your so right, I can't believe I let it go. I was just doing what I normally do, grind-n-go. They have one of these parties every month, so next month I'm going to work on kiss-closing and maybe getting further by taking the girl out of the club house.

Thanks man.

Here what I do which works almost every time and the first time I did this was on a party bus where everyone was sober (unfortunately). When your dancing use your nails to scratch her thighs lightly then go up her side and just go right back to hands on the waist. Eventually do the opposite going down but this time down the inner thigh, eventually once shes into it, or in your case where she pulls your hands down work from the inner though up to the waist. This should really get her going if so grab her hand put it behind your head keep dancing then eventually turn her around to the front continue grinding then go in the the Kasey.