I know two girls, each of them own a dog.

Dog #1: Is an energetic dog that loves to play and has a strong connection with her owner. This dog is so lovable! The owner often treats the dog as her emotional support, and probably couldn't survive without the animal. This dog has such a way about her that you feels like she "gets you" and shows all the behaviors of a confident and fun creature. When people come, this dog will light up a room. In conclusion, this dog is respected and treated with respect.

Dog #2: Is a very weird dog.... The owner of the dog always insults the dog and critices all the weird things the dog does. He's always walking around with his tail between his legs and you swear it's gonna kill himself one day. The dog gives you sly looks and his owner doesn't really care too much for him because she said he's just a weird moody dog and said the dog doesn't like her. When people come, nobody really gives a shit about the weird dog standing in the corner. In conclusion, this dog is not respected, and people barely even acknowledges it as a "good dog".


Many times people on this message board asks "why does body language matter???" and how many questions are asked "what do I say to her to fix this problem???"

After reading this, the story of two dogs, could you assume that none of the dogs problems resulted from "what he said, or should have said"???

Amen!