(Back story first) Was at a party saw 2 potential targets, "1" Scene/emo/rocker girl sitting with 2 friends (1guy 1 girl), and "2" was a "Fratty/Cheerleader" type girl. Both 7-8's depending how you like your women. Anyway, i had semi-success with girl #1, chatted a bit she liked alot of the same music as i did, but was more adventourous then I, not to say that's a bad thing, anyway...She headed out for another drink, me not wanting to wait around went to girl #2 and started talking with her, She wasn't as enteresting, maybe more atractive for most men, but i'm VERY much into the 'scene punk' type girls, but she was also more into me then #1.

Anyway, my question is about stereotyping when it comes to women, I don't dress the way i like my women, i know it sounds odd, anyways, I have alot of Hollister shirts, American eagle, and then some Skate shirts (Only 19 btw, if that matters at all) but I was curious if you think the way i dress singles out types of women and puts off others? I find myself thinking aslong as i look good and i like it, i should be fine, but to maybe girl #1 she see's me differently than #2 because of my clothing/the way i portray the clothing? I mean, girl #1 was ALOT more like me, in pretty much everyway except clothing, so, to wrap this up; Do you think dressing a certain way puts off "certain types" of girls/women?

(sorry for long post)

Dont apologize for anything in your posts, it wasnt even that long and even if it was, this is the place to come for it bro, we're in this together.

Anyway kid to answer your question...yes and NO. Here's the thing, it ultimately doesnt matter, its all about being cool, chicks dont care what you wear as long as you are cool and you escalate smoothly. Now of course if you ask these chicks what they prefer, they will say "blah blah blah, i like guys with tattoos or big muscles or i like tall guys" whatever whatever, because everyone has dated someone who wasnt their "type"

what it comes down to is this...attraction is not a choice man, she may find shes more attracted to a certain type of guy, but that doesnt mean she wont date out of this zone, ya know?

If you think the clothes disqualify you then the answer is yes, but its all in your head man, theres a ton of puas who could be put in a lineup with other guys who wouldnt get picked by the chicks on looks, but if you put this chick in the bar and tell the guy she picked and a guy who knows what he's doing like we do, to have at her, most likely pua will win man

and thats the bottom line

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