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The bad boy image. It seems to drive girls wild with sexual desire. But why?
Before answering this question i will divide the traits of a "Bad Boy" into 3 specific things

1) No dependence on others
2) Does whatever he feel likes, when he feels like it
3) Social Proof - Both guys and girls will seek the approval of the Bad Boy

Now that the main aspects of what attracts women to these "Bad Boys" have been isolated it is now time to find out why.

1) No dependence on others

This aspect is huge to women. It shows the woman that you are by definition the tribal leader. Naturally a woman will respond to this based on basic survival and replication instincts. While most of you are already aware, humans have come a long way from the primates we once were. When someone scares you, adrenaline pumps through your veins as part of a "fight or flight" mechanism. Similar to this is the response that both men and women have due to certan social stimulants, ie being a tribal leader.
Having no dependance on others also makes the woman feel as if you dont need anything from her. If there is one thing women hate most, its the wimpy guy who appears to have no other options. The Bad Boy would never let this happen becuase basically he is so detached from outcome dependance that even if he doesnt get the girl it would be more her loss than his.

2) Does whatever he feels like, whenever he feels like

Doing whatever you feel like whenever you feel like doing it is one of the most alpha qualities one can possess. It shows absolute confidence in that no one around you plays any role in determining your actions. Why this is attractive to women is because it shows that you dont make any comprimises. It shows her that youre confidence is rock solid, she will be very intrigued into "figuring you out" thus creating interest. Girls can also depend on the Bad Boy being absolutely honest with them. They will never hide information to avoid them from looking bad, because hell, that would require them to care.

3) Social Proof - Both guys and girls will seek the approval of the Bad Boy

While this is effective on girls, it would have the same effect on the guys in the club as well. The bad boy comes off as the "coolest" guy simply because he doesnt care. Every one will be seeking social approval from the "bad boy" because they see him as being cool and will want to also be verified by him. A bad boy will never be alone in social situations. If you see some guy trying to be a Bad Boy sitting on the couch alone at a party it just looks like they arent having fun. Girls will not be attracted to the guy trying to be a Bad Boy by picking fights.

In summary, here are some things you should do to adapt your game to the qualities of a Bad Boy, without having to buy a motercycle, leather jacket, or take up smoking;

* Become less reactive. Practice taking just a little bit longer (never exceed 2-3 seconds) to respond to peoples questions or when someone calls out your name
* Be bluntly honest. Unless you will legitimately offend the person you are talking to to the point of tears, be honest. Show her that her presence has no effect on your honesty. It will show her that you are not seeking her approval and she will open up to you as well, great for comfort building. An example of this would be using a neg, however never to the point of insult, and never neg about a physical quality without offering your own suggestion on how to improve it.
* Practice Bad boy body language. Take up space and become comfortable with perhaps going arm to arm or leg to leg with the person beside you.
* Practice at decreasing your outcome dependance. This isnt easy. But really try to eliminate your outcome dependance. Girls will feel as if you arent seeking something from them and will be much more comfortable with you.

Things not to do

* Dont have a stern look on your face, no girls will want to be with the guy who looks like hes having a bad time. So smile, being a Bad Boy isnt limited to having a stone cold face all the time.
* Dont overdo the Bad Boy image to the point of being mean to everyone you talk to. It will just make you seem unhappy, remember girls will be attracted to guys that embody a lifestyle they find appealing, im not sure that any girl would be interested in adoptng an unhappy lifestyle.

PS Special shout out to Stefan for the idea for this article. If you have any suggestions for future articles please PM me


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