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| Ezo | PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 6:11 pm | |
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Posts: 4238 | | Hey people,
I have analysed the behaviour of a friend of mine that is very alpha. I broke the biggest secret down to this:
High expectations
Thats it, this guy always have a slightly higher expectation of you than you actually live up to. In order not to look like a loser you end up proving yourself to him over and over. All done in a friendly way. Like so:
"Well, Ill let you decide on the wine, after all, you know about these things" And then get disappointed when it is not great. or:
"What do you thing, you are after all the expert of blah blah"
The guy gets disappointed all the time and you feel awful for it... Terribly alpha!
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| Chill84 | PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2008 3:53 am | |
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Posts: 59 | | Good observation, I'll test for myself. After all being alpha is more than blowing out the other alphas.
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| David~ | PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 9:40 pm | |
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Location: D.C., U.S.A. | | this is true. being alpha also includes self confidence and not needing people to reassure you of things. back to RJ's SS confidence tapes.
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