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kulture
PostPosted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 8:12 am 
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Does anyone get this problem?

I get physically tired of talking non stop and my voice just gets lower as time progresses. It's exhausting and my attention gradually drift away, and I want to eject asap.

Is this a matter of lack of practice? How long does it take to get over this problem?
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Ask more questions. It's supposed to be a conversation, not a lecture. EXCHANGE information don't just give it. If you're talking for 20 mins STRAIGHT, you're doing something wrong.

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Yeah, I'm going to agree with Rotor here. You should be controlling the conversation during the first few phases and doing a good deal of the talking, but not ALL the talking. If she's not interested enough in you to contribute to the conversation after 20 minutes then I say eject.
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Actions speak lowder than words.
You can't just blabla all the time (20mins? id be dead). Gotta be physical too, break her shields fast like a real PUA, and get closer physically. Not like boring AFC. If she's not interrested, you're doing it wrong, attraction is not a choice.
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I don't talk for 20 mins straight (that's impossible for me!). I interact with her for 20 minutes, then feel exhausted.

Constantly thinking of routines and topics when the conversation stalls is DRAINING me.

But if I don't CONSCIOUSLY think of "the NEXT step", I go back to my old AFC ways and fail to close.

How long does it take until the process feels natural and not exhausting?
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It gets natural with time, practice is key, try relaxing a bit more :)
Don't use scripted shit all the time, be creative and use things around you to create topics, use your personality.

I really hope that helped
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Yeah, exactly..but you have to increase your stamina, mystery says that the attraction phaze takes 3-5mins after the opener, neg, dhv..so you should trying to figure something out that works for you in that time interval

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20 minutes straight is way too long for you to be talking. Why are you even talking to a set for 20 minutes straight? I don't know the specific details but unless I manage an instant date my sets don't usually last that long before I've moved on; either after having # closed or planning on returning to the set later.

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