When I'm in a group of people or walk into a room I still can't make my self stand out. People never notice me or even remember me ? what can I do to be more noticeable so girls can remember me ?

Standing out in a group of people is 100% irrelevant when it comes to success in this game. Go up to a girl and initiate 1 on 1. She'll feel your energy. That's all that matters. Then the question obviously becomes how effective are you going to be at hooking the girl once you start talking to her. But first start there: open women 1 on 1.

oceanx has a point, talking to women will make them remember you for sure. But of course, that's easier said than done. Most people can't go from an invisible ghost to a smooth talker in just one step. so let's smoothen up that evolution a little bit.

I don't know how you dress, but my guess is that your clothing style is the issue. can you describe yourself? (what do you wear on a night out, do you have a trendy haircut, are you short or tall, big or skinny....)

95% of the people I meet during the day dress thesame. thesame shapeless pants, thesame hoodies or sweaters, thesame sneakers... and I fucking hate it! they're all grey mouses in a whole mass of grey mouses, ofcourse they don't stand out and nobody remembers them.

Try to look a little different from everybody else. not so different that you look like a freak, but look for an unique style that fits your personality and creates the "image" you're going for. And even if you don't open your mouth, people will notice you, and they'll remember you the next time they see you.

I for example love the vintage rock& roll look. skinny jeans, denim jacket, boots, scarfs, hair short on the sides and back and longer & messier on top. Not to the extend that I look like a clown, but enough to stand out from the dull crowd. and even though I'm a short guy and not a great talker, people notice me.

Ofcourse it is always better to stand out with your personality than with your looks, but improving the looks is already a step in the right direction.

Standing out in a group is not 100 per cent irrelevant. Firstly, if you do stand out in the group you're likely to attract more attention from girls in that group, opening up possible opportunities, opportunities which might be easier given they are already aware that you are the "stand out" option in this group.

Secondly, being a forgetful face in a group is reflective of a more underlying problem. It's not to do with dressing louder or anything like that. It's to do with how you carry yourself. Picture the smooth guy in the group who you can see all the girls flocking to in your head. What's he like? I'm guessing he's well dressed but not "peacocking", he's relaxed and calm and probably not the loudest or even most talkative person in the group. But I bet he's directing the conversation, making points at various times to steer the conversation as he feels fit, and when he does say something it leaves impact, either it's funny and makes people laugh, or it is just enough to make it evident that he is the one in charge here and the loud guys around him are really his followers who he lets do all the talking. His body language will be superb, he'll move slowly and fluidly and will probably have a knowing smile on his face white regularly. Most likely, he's also a not brooding or trying to be the "cool guy" in the group, but is sociable and smiley without coming across as a grinning clown.

Now that guy stands out in the group for mostly all the same reasons that a girl will be attracted to him. And really it ultimately comes down to how he carries himself.

My best piece of advice would be to have that idea of that bloke Iin your head at all times and BE him. Fuck thinking you'll look stupid trying to be him. Just do it. Go into it confidently. Try it for short periods of time first, it can be quite exhausting doing it for longer periods of time,before you're used to it.