hey guys just wana know your opinion on my style. i do wana try to give out a indie/rock sorta look, if you know what i mean. im not sure on this but i wana give out an appearance that adventerious and confident. i think this image will attract the girls that i may find an interest in.




this one is my main going out dress sence. i wear this with faded bootfit jeans


this is my messy hair. i think it looks pretty cool and i do spend some time on makin it look nice. for this i use VO5 matt clay. havent used many others, tho im thinking of getting american crew fiber if its any good.

also thinking of getting some skinny jeans. but a little skeptical about the way they fit(looks a bit gay). some opinions will be nice.

I like the hair, its standout and stylish. Your shirt and jacket i think fit the style you speak of.

One thing i would pay specific attention to is your posture and facial expressions. You need to smile and in the second picture you look like you have your hands in your pockets. Also stand up straight.

Id also say that you seem like myself to be skinny and at least average hieght. Id recommend getting tight fitting boot cut jeans. They will feel tight around your junk and upper legs, but lose from your knee down. At first they feel uncomfortable and "gay"...but they will fit your body type much better and look more stylish.

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"Be the same, only better."

First off, your hair kicks ass. I have crew fiber, it is quite good for short hair, but I have much longer hair than you so I use crew natural wax and bed head hair spray.

This part is important, doubly so because your hair is so short. Next time you're at the grocery store, get from the toiletries section a pair of tiny trimming scissors. Use them to thin your eyebrows, ever so slightly at first. Take a few weeks to get it right so nobody notices and you won't feel shocked or uncomfortable. The way to do it is to comb your eyebrows straight up with your hand or a comb so you can trim across the top with the tiny scissors.

Don't worry about looking gay, women really like guys who are neatly groomed and dress stylishly.

yeah, don't worry about your appearance. Focus on your inner game.

I don't know where you live, but if you are in the states. Go to supercut and buy some "Spiker" glue.

cheers guys for the feedback, i mite have a look into those jeans and and hair gel. but my main problem is that i just cant think of a good opener to speak to a girl. maybe this is a bit of the subject, but opinion openers are just a little long for me to start with or just saying how you doing leaves a answer like "yah im fine" and all that. so maybe somethin simple, a short line will do.

I did go out 2nite but my m8s were just sitting down at the side of the club and you know you get that feeling that you just dont wanna leave your mates and go off somewhere. all my mates can seem to chat to girls and i cant. its really fustrating. i guess its all about pratices make perfect. so im thinking i mite start off going into shopping centre and ask a few girls for the time, just to get comfitable with it. its just that all through my life ive never really had a good relationship with a girl, i mean just genaral chit-chat. cos my class at school was full of blokes and now im doing an IT course at college and there are no girls in my class. i get on really well with all my mates its just girls that im diferent at, you know what i mean. i would consider myseft as an alpha male of the group, all my mates wanna chat to me and stuff, its just went a girl come in i just shut the fuck up. shes like there chatting to a mate and i would just wait till she leaves and say stuff like "aww shes well fit" but cos i dont know her, i wont chat to her.

so anyway, you reckon its a good subject to start chating to girls uptown about what the time is, i dont reckon i can manage going up to anyone and just say hi, they would be like what the fuck man.


EDIT: so i guess mystery is chatting shit when he said " if you lead the men, the woman will follow" - thats a load of bollocks.

Start by asking the time, then move opinions.. practice makes perfect. Don't be afraid! They're simply girls

Mystery IS right...but you have to be in the girls group (or they in yours) for this to really work, otherwise being a leader is just more proof to add to your value.

As far as opening, learn maybe 2-3 short opinion openers. Also try situational openers. These are talked about less because, wait get this, they depend on the situation. These do come accross as more natural however. Usually they derive from an observation you make about the environment or the subject of the opener. These are a bit hard too because they have to be done improv.

Hope this helps.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

Just look smart and you'll be fine. You're hair is spot on, I should know since I'm shavin' and bald The single most important trait that you need to develop is your inner game. Believe that you are worth an HB10 (as they say) and you will get an HB10.

And if you don't, you'll get an HB7 which is better than the HB3 you would have got if you only believed you deserved an HB5!! The single most important lessons that I think I ever learned were the following:

1. 'Who the f@ck cares what she thinks' Tucker Max
2. "She's not the prize, I am.' Me

Have fun

Sensei.

i love the green jacket. Where'd you get it?
Work on that posture a little bit. YOu (like myself) are really skinny, you must project your chest out. Very AM