This is something I have been working on the past few months. This is something that needs training because you can fall easily back in old habits.
If you are looking for examples, check out this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXB9-k82oOY
Not only is this a good video to show some good pick up stuff, but when you really listen to this guy:
- how he says his stuff,
- his body language while saying.
and especially:
- He ignores what a girl says/asks when he is mid sentence, and finishes his sentence first before giving attention to what the girl says, in a slow/hypnotic but not monotone voice. (dominance)
hope this helps.
-Q