OK here's the scoop I have enrolled in a non-verbal communications class and we were talking the other day about bodily adornments and what they meant (wedding band, headdresses in native american cultures etc...) I had the habit of wearing of my ex-girlfriend's hair bands around my right wrist...(don't start rambling about inner game and whatnot, I just always wore it when we were together for whatever reason)...and I don't have long hair at all. So it's just like one of those hair rubber bands that you can get at walmart or drugstores in a 10pack or so.

Think about it...by simply wearing this, you are PEACOCKING by wearing something out of the ordinary (for a guy anyway,unless you have long hair) and it's DEFINITELY a conversation starter. When I get asked about it, I just say that one of my "girlfriends" or just "female friends" always looses hers and so I keep one on me for her if this happens. DHV #1: You are showing PRE-SELECTION by other women. DHV #2: You are showing that you are a PROVIDER to your friends and loved ones. DHV#3: You are showing that you can stand up to social pressure by wearing an atypical item for a male.

Only wear one though as this is a POWERFUL yet SUBTLE Peacock/DHV item. Trust me, women use these things very often so they can tell if its a hair band or just a rubber band and once they notice it, they will LOCK ON!!! Happy Hunting Comrades! Shreder

Wow, dude i do the same thing for preselection...but I wear 5 different colored ones saying that girls have given me a certain color because of what they saw in me so it gives a reason why the girls were into me and whatnot.

And it is good conversation starter...hasn't failed yet

Never thought of it as peacocking though..thats interesting

Holy shit that's genius. Pure genius. I think there's a pink one lying around here somewhere so I'm gonna find that fucker and experiment!

Dude, if you have to psych yourself up before going out sarging, more power to you...But while your here, build your brothers up.

Hahaha dude my bad! Damn man you had me trippin for a sec.

Well played good sir..."Respect" as all the cool kids say nowadays haha!

Pure genius! I LOVE IT!!! L.A. Tripp WILL be trying this out!
And as far as THIS goes . . . Hobbit, HOW was WE supposed to know he was your friend? I honestly got ticked off too that you called him a retard. Friend or not, this is NOT the place to joke around like that. Shreder is right when he says you need to build people up here, even if he IS your wing. If you feel like that's how you need to treat your friends by name calling . . . do it else where. Not here, because it's not appreciated by others.

~Cali Tripp

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Hobbit, he is my husband. I respect him and agree with most of what he says. That is part of a marriage . . . not to mention most of the time he knows what he's talking about here on the forum.
I was NOT judging you!!! I will only judge you IF you ask me your opinion. I was trying my best to be tactful to say that kind of behavior does not need to be on this forum . . . whether it be you or another member. So don't get snotty with me, because I can get snotty right back!

~Cali

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Hmmmm. You watch me alienate lots of people? Obviously you don't pay attention and see the people that are thankful for what I do either. To be truthful, yes, I alienate people, but those people tend to be the trouble makers anyway. The ones that end up getting banned in the end, anyway. Yes, I'm harsh, when I NEED to be. I'm also truthful with people about what they may need to change. THAT isn't harsh. That comes out of caring for them. Obviously I'm not perfect, but when I get direct requests from people that ask me for my advice specifically, because they KNOW I won't hold back and that's why they come to me . . .

At the same time, however, I don't come across abrasive UNLESS it's warranted. There are plenty of posts where I'm not abrasive at all. Maybe you should take a lesson for yourself?

It's good that you don't care about being judged on an internet forum, but the fact is, how you are on here, is most likely how you are in real life as well. If it works for you fine, but my bet is you have issues there too, and maybe you're afraid to look in the mirror.

This is the first time I can recall coming at you on this forum. Sadly, you've made me eat my words, because I actually defended you to my wife before this. I had no issues with you before.

As for the bands..ima keep this in mind.

Hobbit..even tho i knew you were kidding my initial reaction was to wonder why you would bash someone, and it reminds me of a couple friends i have that i had to counter. How you and your friend interact is your buisness, however when you interact publicly expect to have others get involved.

As for Tripp Hobbit, i have been on these forums almost as long as he has. I have gotten to know him realativly well and have read many of his posts. I have NEVER seen him "alienate" someone. I have seen him cut the shit with people and tell them what they need to hear, and i have seen him do his JOB as a mod.

But shreder cali and LA are all doing the right thing and looking out for the community and you should respect that. This forum and its members are here to help each other, not bust each others balls. Like i said before, the way you and your friends decide to interact with each other is your buisness, til you bring it here and make it everyones buisness.

-Respect-

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Hobbit, don't worry, that's what us mods are for. When threads get out of hand, we do lock them. For now, there's nothing wrong with this one. As long as the dispute stops here. Keeping it open will allow other people to participate in this discussion.

I used this on the same night I closed my first phone numbers, a few of the girls noticed, and asked about it. I was sure to be very elusive and funny about the answers, like when jobs come up. One girl used it as a connection piece (like she put her fingers in it, similar to when you pet a dog under the collar hehe)

THANKS

Twitch

i think im gonna try this but i will never say that i carry it in case a girl loses it. IMO doesnt that sound AFC? maybe if she asks when ur in c1/c2 what its really for u can say that but def not at the opener. am i wrong for thinking that?

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GQ, Thanks for pointing that out! Good insight! I can see where that might be an issue, whereas I was just thinking about the role of the "Provider" aspect. If this is part of the interaction as far as opening, you could

A: Use the original line of "One of my girlfriends always loses hers." for pre-selection.

B: Look dreamily of into the distance and say "Ahhh, That my friend, was a good night!"

C: As a play or modification of (A) you could go the "selfish" route and say something like "Her hair always bugs me when we are fooling around so I keep this handy so she can tie that shit up!"

Haha! I don't know about that last one but if you're congruent with your image it might work.

In all honesty I have actually used this more in the Comfort Phase (as you mentioned) than I have as an opener, but if it comes up in the first few seconds (i.e. the opener) then that's what it has done: Opened the set. Stack forward immediately and I don't think it will be an issue.

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