Over the last month I have uped my game by 300% simply by studying body language and keeping my own body language how it should be, when i initialy talk to a girl I use light hand gestures to help get what im saying to her accross, by looking and hearing i am saying their attention is more focussed to you and is unlikey for their eyes and attention to wander off.

Next is keno, for all you gamers out there. by being my cocky-funny self i get alot of hitting on the shoulder or poking in my side.
when a girl initialy hits or pokes me, I usually say "Hey hands still lady" or "hey dont dirty my shirt with youre grubby hands" or something along those lines but it all depends on the type of person you percieve them as. sometimes when i say "hey dont dirty my shirt with those grubby hand" they go for it again or wipe their hands all over my shirt, which i consider a BIG IOI.
I always look out for the playing with hair or scratching of the back of her hands etc.

When I have a girl sitting with me, I show her a little interest by leaning foward to talk to her, once the conversation is rolling i will lean back and get comfortable, usually the girl will have to lean into me to talk to me.
for example i have been seeing an extreemly difficult girl who gives all the IOIs and then at the end of the night for some reason hesitates for a kiss or things of that sort. but the other night when we were sitting at the bar she sat in her chair sideways facing away from me, I thought "you litte bitch!!" she trys very hard to not show me any IOIs but within 5 mins shes facing me leaning into me giving IOIs left right and centre, soaking in every word i am saying laughing ang carrying on.

I find reading body language in a female is quite easy and becomes second nature when you put it into use every moment possible, i always had trouble at first, holding a conversation and trying to figure out what her body language means at the same time, but now i just know.
body position is a big deal, if her feet or legs are facing you, you have her attention, if she is leaning in also you most definately have her attention, If you can get constant eye contact from her durng conversation, dont abuse it, I find if she is in conversation with you and you look away occaisionally for a period of time they will be more motivated to gain youre acceptance in conversation, especialy if you are sitting at a table in a quiet bar and she is out of reach from keno.

When at any stage you have escalated youre keno to hugging or kissing you will find if they are comfortable with you they will have their body in porpotion with youres, if they are pressed up against you from top to bottom with their head on youre chest if they are shorter, or shoulder if the same height or taller (facing outward from youre neck in most cases).

when kissing or going in for the kiss the same body position as hugging, but if they want to kiss you they will look up at you with their chin on youre chest if shorter. and if the same height or taller they will position their head inwards toward youre neck.

every week I find myself concentrating on one part of the game, my first was getting rid of AA, the next was openers, im not a fan of canned openers but still struggle a little to get the right words out in an opener at times. and this week was holding conversation and comfort building which includes body language and perception of personality and judge of character.

if you are new or bad at using body language as a tool, or you have any tips for myself please drop me a comment, I probably left a few key points out so please do

Wow ! Great stuff , I learned some things from this worth reading.

Nice read! I will say this though you have to take into consideration each woman has a different response curve. So you leaning in on a girl too quickly can be a horrible mistake if she isn't ready for it, you can come across someone coming on too strong.

Your culture can change how strong or weak you come on to people, so with some people you standing close or leaning in is normal and for others it is threatening or coming on too strong.

When you begin picking up a woman you want to start with a neutral angle so that you aren't standing to direct. Turning to show her the full picture of you so she can check you out then going neutral is a good thing as well. If you stand too direct too early you can be threatening if her attraction isn't ready for you.

If you were to approach a woman you want to walk straight toward her so she can check out the goods but as you walk up to her go more neutral and then start talking without your torso facing her at all or angled, as attraction builds and sexual tension builds you face more and more towards her.

Space is a big deal when it comes to attraction if you jump in her space too soon she'll take a step back, if however you step into her space when she is ready she'll stay put and maybe even lean in.

As her torso begins to lean in she closes the distance you can close the distance with her by reciprocating her interest.

Courtship is a game where you show interest then take it away. Then show her interest again. It really is a series of push-pull moment until you get to the "it on moment" then you just step up your game, isolate and consummate.

The 2 biggest problems with failure are being over-responsive and under-responsive in the body language department during courtship. It isn't hard to hold the right amount of interest but you need to be aware(as you talked about) until it becomes natural.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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I was trying to give you +rep but I have none myself so am unable to good info you sound like you have got good game.

Thanks for the info vic

I got a good F close on saturday night after a few days of seeing a girl. interesting how a bit of push pull and keno escilation can get you

no worries fella's hope it helps, a bit, im always happy to share my findings, im sure you guys could help me out hear and there also