Simple question guys.. Gimme a why as well please x

As with so many things in life, it all comes down to context. Where and to what will you be wearing said attire? No one can give you worthwhile advice without knowing those parts of the equation, but a good rule of thumb is to dress slightly more formal than the way everyone else is dressed.

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I think this depends on who you are, and your life style. I won't wear a button up shirt or tie for anybody.

Even on my first dates with women I really like. I refuse to change my style to impress people. Hell, I won't even dress up for my boss at work.

I actually have one lady that keeps asking me out, about an HB8 who is CEO at some security company. She always insists I wear a suit or at least a tie, slacks and button up shirt. Every week end I tell her I'm busy and can't make it.

On first dates I usually wear a football jersey, a brand spankin' new pair of Nikes, and distressed jeans. If my date don't like it... Screw them. I'll just date someone else that won't bitch about what I like to wear.

Awesome responses guys.. I'm just talking in general like going out to a club.. Where I live (London) there is always a mix of people wearing t-shirts and shirts in the clubs, and I was wondering which people would choose, obviously one is more formal than the other..

That's a great view dlightmen, it displays very alpha male characteristics thanks for the response.

Even in a club it depends on what sort of club it is, who you're going with, whether you're going anywhere else first/after etc. etc. For instance, I go to an indie club quite a bit, for that I normally just wear a t-shirt as it's quite a sweaty horrible place to be honest (but great fun!). Whereas if I'm going to a more upmarket club I'll probably put a shirt on.

Generally, it's entirely about your own style. If you want to dress up slightly smarter and give off a 'sharper' persona, then you're probably going to wear shirts more often. If you're going for a more laid back vibe then you'll probably go for teeshirts more often, but even within these very wide generalisations you can change to suit the circumstances.

The other posters are spot on, everything is about you, context, situation.

Honestly if you feel more confident in a button up, got with a button up. If you feel more confident in t-shirt than wear a t-shirt.

Button ups in general do look better than t-shirts (one dating book written by a woman said men should always wear button ups). I usually sport t-shirts summertime but during winter I go button up (for warmth and aesthetics).

You must wear whatever is kosher with who you are, not what we prefer. Make sure whatever you wear it is part of your style. If this is suits, t-shirts, button ups, slacks, just makes sure that it is congruent with you.

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Haha! I never trust dating books or tips written by 99% percent of ALL women. What women say they like, and what really turns women on are usually ALWAYS two totally different things.

Very rarely will you ever meet a woman that realizes, let alone, admit, they want screw anything that looks hot with huge thingy....'

Just sayin....

Do you disagree that button ups don't make a man look classier? Just look better in general? Seriously? You think a t-shirt looks better? You don't think a woman prefers a man in a button up over T-shirt? HOW?

I'm going to assume you are younger. While I don't think apparel has much to do with having "game", presentation can certainly up your chances with women and provide you with more warm approach opportunities.

If you meet a sexually mature woman she won't want a guy with something bumping her cervix(a huge cock) with the exception of a few women, it's quite discomforting. If a woman does appreciate cervix stimulation she will certainly be comfortable admitting she likes to be fucked hard(these girls tend to be vocal about their pleasures and desires). A sexually mature woman knows she has a primal side and endorsing her sexual side. All the things your talking about are the behaviors of a younger age bracket.

At some point women become comfortable with their sexual desires, most of the time this happens around 19-23 depending on their sexual experience. By 30(really around 26 or so) about every mentally healthy woman I've ever met has a very good and mature sexual outlook. Which means they love sex and admit it. If you don't believe me go interview women. Note: women who grow up in conservative households sometimes never gain a healthy outlook on sex.

I've said some fucked up shit and had takers as well as a ton of forum members to prove my point, countless direct game stories. So yes woman admit their sexuality all the time as long as you let them know it's ok, you must be trusted. You need to change your outlook if you think women won't admit their sexuality you have a ton to learn.

Most people don't know what they are talking about when it comes to courtship kind of a null and void point. The book I read was a very good book, it was actually based on body language. Presentation is a part of body language, it's why she mentions it.

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Cheers yeah I normally do sport a shirt or dark v neck but the people I go out with all wear t-shirts.. Was wondering what people preferred

PICK YOUR WEAPON

Tshirt is for muscly boys,Shirts are for grown up alpha males.

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Totally agree! I'm preparing for war!

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Depends on the weather. If it's warm, a t-shirt is acceptable. It also depends on your physique. If you have ripped arms and shoulders that will be much more noticeable than the fact that you aren't wearing a nicer button up shirt. If you have no muscular definition then I would almost always recommend a nicer shirt, because a t-shirt will just make you underdressed and only reveal your lack of muscles. And if you have a big belly, never wear a t-shirt.

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I persoanlly always go for the shirt, even better a double cuffed shirt. It's my style I go for that slightly smarter look. Just shows you've put some effort in, I think it looks a little more grown up anr masculine. Especially here in London clubs, you are surrounded by hot people who put a lot of time and effort into their look.
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Reporting fresh from the field...I wore a t-shirt under my jacket to a dinner date last night, very much intentionally so. I took the jacket off and the girl was like "Yea, I can definitely tell you are bigger now." I'm skinny so that was a compliment. I only wore a fitted t-shirt so that I could specifically show off my arms and physique, and it worked!

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