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hi guys i had my first rendez vous with a girl in years , i must admit that she is not my type but maybe she can be a fuck friend who knows
anyway , when we met she was tensed a bit shy maybe nervous , does not engage conversation but i tried my best to make her speak and avoid painful blanks
therefore , her BL had a wide smile most of the time playing with her hair but it didnt seem like a IOI to me rather something to keep her hands on , but she played with her bracelet once in a while , and tried sometimes to restart conversation , on the other hand she kept crossing her legs , sometime she uncross them
at the end , i guess i did pretty well i didnt see any sever IOD as she answered all my questions and when we left she walked beside me even when we talked her body was facing me and she wasnt afraid to be near me thank you guys for your thoughts
Alright man, don't trip on IOIs or IODs, body language requires you take guidelines into consideration so that you can properly read body language
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=89uDSs2CDLQ .
When we are attracted we preen. Preening is any adjustment in appearance, this mean straightening clothes, messing with hair, messing with jewelery, etc. Here is a article I wrote on preens
http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... ic-preens/ . She wasn't doing something with her hands, she was preening.
When you look for attraction you look for preens, submissive signals
http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... turn-show/ , signs of arousal
http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... skin-tone/ , and eye contact. Closing the distance and touch also happen more often with women attracted.
This girl in all likelihood was attracted, however without actually base lining her behaviors, or idiosyncratic behaviors(is she a girl that is just insecure and always preens?) I can't give a yeah she is definitely attracted.
You don't need to worry about quiet moments it's not that big an ordeal, as sexual tension elevates quiet moments help.
Crossed legs can be use to bring attention to their thighs, women attracted are known for doing this. This is a reminder of sex. To be honest she is sending you a lot of attraction signs. If she was crossing her legs and uncrossing quite often she was probably aroused(not necessarily sexually), by that I mean she was moving her feet a lot (happy feet). This is something we tend to do when our heart beat shoots up during attraction. This was a sign of attraction.
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