problem is im quite babyfaced i look really young for my age so i dont know wether to grow facial hair or stay fresh faced

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give us pics of u both unshaven and with beard and we'll be able to tell you ;p

Babyfaced doesn't mean you can't act alpha, even shaved.

I know I lose about a year or two when I'm shaved, but from the way I behave and dress, people know my real age. I used to have a ten o'clock shadow, and it's been a year that I shave everyday. Didn't change much in my game, but it does make a girl want to touch your face more often, and it feel nicer too.

im 28 but when im clean shaven i look about 19-20

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I gotta weigh in here....
Its movember (if your not familiar with what that is- it means you dont shave for the month) I decided to participate. I've got a pretty serious beard going, and with no changes to my game i've noticed women checking me out and approaching me with far more frequency and the only changed variable is the amount of facial hair I have. This is defidently something that varies by person-some people look good with a beard others dont. Mine is pretty thick and dark, but my best guess is if you can only grow a few pubes, or its pretty sparse, your better off shaving- but otherwise I'd experiment with the beard-its defidently working wonders for me. I was always a believer that women prefered a smooth face but I'm defidently second guessing that.

yeah agree with freewheelin.

I think a lot of it depends on how dark your hair is as well. I'm quite light haired, so it tends to look quite whispy and a bit pathetic. If you've got darker hair and can pull off the "designer stubble" look then yeah it's a good look. I'd probably go with that. If mine was darker and looked less ridiculous, I'd definitely grow a bit of stubble out.

I can grow facial hair but its very patchy but the parts that don't grow are cheeks, my brothers are the same.

Really hoping it begins to fill out lol

IMHO, the whole Babyfaced thing really can be an internal insecurity thing. Honestly, I've known "babyfaced" guys who could really pull. It's all about the attitude.

Me, I prefer facial hair, I think it's timeless, rugged, and manly. It's a matter of degrees of course, I'm not talking about full on Wookie hair.

But some women actually really like a young looking baby face. My advice is at least some stubble and/or a goatie if it's well groomed and well kept. But the question is this

How does it make *you* feel when you look in the mirror?

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i use my andis t trimmer it gives me a ruff stubble look its as closest you can get to shave with a trimmer.

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I personaly have a goatee that I haven't trimmed in two years. It was odd looking for a while, but now everywhere I go women want to pet my chin. Its great! Not to mention less work.

If you are going for looks in general, ie, cold approaches. 5 o'clock shadow. Looks manly, looks like you normally look after yourself but are on an off day. I've asked many of the women I have been with what they prefer and they all like 5 o'clock shadow. I used to wear one all the time, I did get some complains about being too picky in bed and causing neck rashes. But really it's what ever you prefer. Another thing to consider is congruency. What fits your overall style?

Lastly, I am a scruffy guy in general. I'm sure other guys wonder how the hell I get girls with such a bushy beard/long hair. I'm growing dreads at the moment. Women always tell me to shave. It's a perfect opportunity to say "NO!" and show who is boss. lol.

One time I had a long goatee. My gf harassed me daily to shave it. One day I decided to surprise her with a clean shaven face. She took one look at it and said: "I don't like it. It's not you. Grow it back!!"

I agreed and noticed I started losing attraction because I was being so compliant. Mind you I was 18 then and younger women are more.... idk... young.

#1 Rule: If you cant grow it DON'T!!!!
If its kinda all right but still a little patchy and you cant stand havin a babyface then keep it very short, go buy some hair clippers and put the number 1s on it and keep it at number 1.
Best styles I find that attract women are chinstrap not to thin not to thick just right or Side burns nicely shaped ( think john travolta) with chin hair or without (no goatee) unless your a country singer lol

hahah I have a real babyface... but the beard fits me well when I grow it... But I always shave before I go out... To be honest, I am 26 and I really get often oh you are 20? 21? Some girls know but a lot think I'm younger so what I do is when they tell me I look young I start laughing and tell them well that's not bad... when I'll be 30 I'll still be able to pick up girls in the low 20s Or any stupid comment like for example I could say: oh well at least.. when we'll be married and you'll start to look.. I'll still look young and sexy Anything man just make sure it doesn't affect you and try to be fun it's really simple.. I really get often the comments that I look young, or like a really really good guy or any stuff like that and then they tell me that when they start talking to me I really surprise them because they are not expecting me to neg them and be playfull and have that kind of attitude! Sometimes I get the : ah you're so mysterious.. you look like such a good guy but you have that bad boy attitude!! Blablabla... use it to your advantage don't make it a negative thing.. if you feel it's a bad thing, they will feel it too.. believe me

I think it depends on what type of women you're trying to pick up. Some girls like it and others don't. Oh, and it really depends on your face. If you want to look older go for it, but only if you can grow a proper beard.