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read from page 1-11 amazing insight

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Holy shit! That is a lot of reading to go through. Sounds like you got something out of it. If you have any questions ask I will answer them as best I can.

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to be honest, every post you posted that I found helpful I copied into microsoft word and I'm going to re organize it so I can use it as a go to book for body language haha. How long have you been studying body language?

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Well I read a bit about it before but since 2007 when I joined the forum is when I really got into it. It is super easy, people just need to pay attention.

I actually have it in book form on my Microsoft. I need to convert it to PDF so I can add it to a website so people can download all this information into an easy access like that. I just want to go through it and edit it some.

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Yeah im always looking at people and kind of studying them. People watching is so much fun haha. But I've learned alot since reading your posts and im definitely going to start putting them to everyday use. Cause im only turning 18 this month, so if I learn to read people right now, I feel like everything else i do will be easier, at least when it comes to understanding and talking to people.

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Hey guys I uploaded most of this information in MS Word form to my website.

www.showyourmind.com

I thought it would be a lot easier for you guys to read, plus if you guys find out any other info you can just add it to it for an easy note book of stuff.

There really isn't any new info, just an easier format to read it than through all the posts.

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I just read from page 1-12 and it was a great read,very insightful.
Thank you so much for doing this.

I have one question though so I was reading this girl's body language a few weeks ago and looking back I saw she was attracted to me(When talking to me fixing her hair and etc.)and at that time I had the understanding but I didn't know what to do(I was quite new to this PUA stuff at that time).I put my hand on her shoulder while walking,she took it off(I acted like nothing happened but I didn't try it again though) and a few weeks later she no longer shows any signs of attraction towards me in her body language and now displays attraction to another guy.
So was my previous action what caused the loss of attraction or was it me not doing anything towards it?

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I just read from page 1-12 and it was a great read,very insightful.
Thank you so much for doing this.

I have one question though so I was reading this girl's body language a few weeks ago and looking back I saw she was attracted to me(When talking to me fixing her hair and etc.)and at that time I had the understanding but I didn't know what to do(I was quite new to this PUA stuff at that time).I put my hand on her shoulder while walking,she took it off(I acted like nothing happened but I didn't try it again though) and a few weeks later she no longer shows any signs of attraction towards me in her body language and now displays attraction to another guy.
So was my previous action what caused the loss of attraction or was it me not doing anything towards it?

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Without me being there I can't say which it was. There are some girls who prefer you be very responsive(such as take charge by putting your arm around her), you could end up seeming pushy with other girls who prefer you be less responsive.

If you don't respond to a girls signals/overtures she will move on, after all you did reject her. You have to respond to her or she will give up, but as I said there is a point where she may feel as if you are pushy or as if she wants more. You must observe her body language and find out whether she wants to be touched, or if she needs a little more space.

I wouldn't put too much stock in her being attracted to another guy, girls are always attracted to another guy. She may be more attracted to him then you right now. It is natural for her to be attracted to more then one guy.

I say you did good by putting your arm on her shoulder and finding out where you were at. It is never bad to figure out how attracted they are to you, you have to do it at some point, perhaps you should have payed a little more attention to her comfort level, but some girls don't always give you the go ahead. So you have to give it shot. :)

Just pay attention next time she is around, she may still be attracted to you.

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Only read a couple of pages, but this is excellent stuff man. Good work.


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Sending Signs

It's been a long time since I added really anything to this thread. I have written a lot about how to stand. How to look the confident male that makes you feel the confident feel. The thing I haven't done is go over sending signs. Saying from across the room hey I find you attractive are you open to an approach?

When I enter a room I look around, sometimes I am looking for people I know, other times I am scanning the room for attractive women, most of the time it's a combination of the two. The question is what do you do when you see that girl and you notice she is giving you a look? How do you send her I am interested and a male?

You let her know you ARE looking. Don't sit there like a frail boy oh she is attractive I am scared. Do you keep looking over scared avoiding getting caught looking? Stop that immediately, that is exactly the opposite what you should be doing. You shouldn't just be looking over you need to say “I am looking”, I am looking because I find you attractive.

Start with a Grin

When you make eye contact you don't want to appear angry or mad. You want to make sure you look non-threatening. One of the easiest ways to appear non-threatening is to start with a small grin to show you aren't "mad dogging" her. You should show them you mean no harm and you certainly aren't looking at her for negative reasons.

This Smile is for You

This is something I already went over in the other thread Being the Man. This is simple, you need to let her know you have a smile for her. So when you look at her, when you make eye contact and she sees you, smile at her. Let your smile grow if you are already smiling, if you aren't smiling give them a big genuine smile. Let them know that this smile is specifically made for her.

Winking

You can wink at a girl to flirt. Pretty simple you make eye contact letting her know "hey I am looking at you" so you wink at her confirming your interest, you are merely doing something small to flirt with her. When you wink at them we all know it is sending a signal, use it to flirt. You are looking to get her attention, show some interest, and do something to visually say "hey".

Eye Brow Flash

Exactly the same as Winking, you are just showing a quick flirtation. Catching attention and sending her personal signs. A lot of times we do this subconsciously but if we show it is on purpose they will know it is meant for them.

Movement

This is merely something you do to catch their attention. Pretty simple you use a simple movement like grabbing a drink. Perhaps you shrug your shoulders, the point is to use movement to send a sign back saying yes I see you and I want you to pay attention to me. All you are trying to say is look at me. Girls do this a lot and you will see them doing this to say pay attention to me. This could be submissive such as slightly bowing your head, turning your head slightly, etc.

Signs of Masculinity

This goes a long with movement; it is an expansion on movement. Not only do you want to look for attention and recognition you want to advertise that you are a male. So when you have made eye contact and you have smiled, winked, flashed your eye brows, add a sign to say “I am an attractive male attracted to you”.

Shoulders

Wide shoulders represent a sign of masculinity. They say "hey I am a man and I have the physical features to be a great home defender and hunter". I can feed and defend offspring. This is something we can’t avoid these are subconscious concepts that we are attracted to them. We usually straighten them out when we see someone we are attracted to anyways. A small shoulder shrug is something a lot of women will do as well when they are attracted to a man as well. It has been known to show up when someone is telling a lie (especially when an asymmetrical shrug). It really is merely a sign of submission or discomfort when it is symmetrical, sad shoulders, shy shoulders, etc.

Crotch

A lot of times we can find ways to bring slight attention to our crotch. This is something we do subconsciously a lot. We might frame our “shaft”. We might put our hands on our waste so you can see our thumbs or fingers pointing towards our “shaft”. The eyes often follow the fingers and we see what they point at even if it is subconscious. Hanging our thumbs out our belt loop so they point at our crotch or put our thumbs outside our pockets to point at or frame it, these all say “hey look at this”.

Another thing we can do slightly open our legs to show that we are willing to give them a "gander at the goods". This is a sign of masculinity, it is something many men do, it allows you to take up more space. It is a very important to show you are a male. Bringing attention to your “shaft” in any way is a sign towards sexuality.

Look Bigger

This is something most of us do subconsciously; we puff up our chest and straighten up our shoulders. In essence we try to appear as a bigger stronger mate. This is something you can do and it says “I am a man”. Pretty simple and something you likely already do as you straighten up when you see someone you are attracted to. Putting our hands on our waste adds to this, so besides your fingers pointing at your waste you look bigger.

Territory

I’ve repeatedly talked about the wide stance and this is like looking bigger. Taking up space or a lot of territory, is basic, the more territory or stuff we have is the higher status we appear. People who have the most territory show their sign of masculinity.

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Counterfeiting Bedroom Eyes

There is something I learned recently that can be very effective, it sends a natural sign that we all notice on a subconscious level. This is a great way to make yourself appear far more attractive.

Find something to look at and let your eyes unfocus on it, not a person the wall, ceiling, floor, cup whatever. Let yourself stare without blinking for a couple minutes, this will let the fluids build up, giving them a shinier look. After a couple minutes (which is a very long time to not blink), blink a few times(3). Eyes should be watering and your pupils dilate, great to improve how attractive you are perceived.

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Reading the body language of a woman is my advantage when i am out there on the field gaming. Body language is a form of nonverbal communication that involves gestures, postures, and physiological signs. Understanding body language can help you know what a person is feeling or thinking. It is only necessary to have a basic understanding of body language in order to be far ahead of your competition. The average man is completely naive when it comes to body language, which results in most of them missing out on many opportunities with women simply because they can not interpret the nonverbal signals that women are sending to them. People are constantly using their bodies to send signals to each other on a subconscious level, body language is something that you can always rely on to assist you when it comes to seducing women. It is a tool that will always be there at your disposal regardless of any woman that you are gaming.



Here are some few examples.



***The Fingers***


**If she pushes her fingers through her hair, she is looking to get your attention. The way she touches her hair is also very important. It tells you information about her temperament. If she does it slowly, you have encountered a cunning expert of the art of love. Quick, nervy movements disclose impatience or embarrassment.


**If she touches the edge of the glass with her fingers, Freudian psychologists often interpret it as a sexual sign. This theory is supported by the women themselves, who claim that they deliberately pet the glass, in order to call the chosen man’s attention upon themselves. Elegant, caressing movement is a sign of intrinsic calmness, self-control and waiting, so sit by her. Her beating a rhythm on the glass with her nails is a sign of impatience or a broad hint of SOS, which she’s sending to her boyfriend, who is fighting for another Bailey’s at the bar.



***Physical Contact***


**If she touches you in any manner, this is almost always a good sign, with the exception of the event in which she is striking you and telling you to get out. If she is lightly touching you on the arm while laughing, or in general just finding any way she can to touch you, bump into you, or grab you, then she is almost certainly interested.




***Check out her hands and arms***



**If she leans on her hand with her chin and her eyes seem to be thinking, it’s not always the sign of her being impressed by your appearance. Generally, the woman tries to answer her own question this way: "Does this guy deserve me?" You know the answer, but the lady needs time. If you want to help her make the only right decision, be politely determinate and determinately polite. Flash your sense of humor as well.


**Hiding the hand = not wanting to communicate with you and/or are keeping secrets



**Hands in pockets with thumbs out = feeling very confident and probably superior to you.


**Most women will expose their wrists and palms of their hands only to people that they are either interested in or already comfortable with. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying, "I'm attracted to you, and waiting for you to make a move". This is a gesture used frequently by women who are shy, so when dealing with a woman who are a bit lacking in social skills, always keep an eye out for their wrists and palms.



**The way the woman herself thinks of her hands is also very important. If she stares at them for a very long time, it may imply that likes you and is nervous. If she is very shy, she will not be able to look at you. another reason for this behavior is that something angers her (perhaps you?). If she beats the rhythm on the table or the bar means a similar state of mind.



***Reading The Lips***

** If a woman wets her lips quite frequently, it’s either out of habit or desire to get you to pay attention to her lips and sooner or later kiss her.


**If you are on a bar/club with a woman and she bends her neck and smiles at you and watches your lips, meaning it's a GO signal for a kiss.


**When a woman is biting her lips, do not interrupt her – everything’s alright. But sometimes, when she’s biting them, you may assume that she’s nervous. Why? Perhaps you are staring at her too inquisitively, or she is subtly flirting with you.


**Pursed lips—showing worry or disapproval

***Watch Her feet***


**If her feet are pointed at you, this means she is interested in you.including crossing the legs so that foot is pointed toward you But, if not, tell her something that will catch her attention.


**Turned toward the door = ready to go and not interested in continuing the conversation with you.


***The Eyes***

**Long blinks—losing interest quickly.


**Fast blinking—possibly under stress or not communicating honestly with you.


** Basic biology tells us that when we like something (or someone) our pupils expand (dilate). When we don't like something, they contract. If her pupils are big, it may be a sign that she likes you, or likes what you're saying. On the other hand, if her pupils are small and pointed, it may be a bad sign. However, this method isn't foolproof. If it is really bright outside pupils contract naturally, regardless and if you are somewhere darker, they naturally dilate.

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Thanks for the Love.

The lips are special because when we are aroused blood rushes to our lips and they actually expand, hence our subconscious attraction to bigger lips(Angelina Jolie anybody?). So when they expand they become itchy similar to when some people lie, they scratch their nose because their is a slight expansion on their nose. It really does grow it is just very small. Also when we are aroused our mouths tend to dry up.

Glasses adjustment to me is a form of preening. A women is constantly adjusting her appearance and bringing attention to her "best" appearance. I notice this signal a lot, some women are however very very self conscious about their glasses after all it is a sign of an imperfect mate. It also subconsciously brings attention to her face. Glasses compliments if genuine always hit the mark on women, they spend a lot of time choosing glasses, and they spend a lot of money on them.

Gotta be careful with the hands. Women do things consciously with their hands a lot but be careful not to miss read things based on context and idiosyncratic behaviors. Hand hiding, can be a sign of shyness. Cold, lots of things, context is very important and not one sign is linked directly to one thing and that only that isn't facially related(which even emotional blends happen across the face). Fear is inhibiting them from doing what they "want" to do and that is socialize normally. Everything has to be taken into consideration on body language. Her habits, her personality, etc.

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I actually put 4 videos together talking about preening, arousal, basic body language guidelines, and submissive signals. Probably over 25 minutes worth but I haven't put it on here. They would explain a lot about what I am saying. I'd be happy to post them but keep in mind they are all shot from the hip so to speak, meaning I didn't script them just kind of talked about them. Shot them each multiple times but didn't really script em up, so they ramble and stutter a bit but the information is pretty solid. If anyone wants I'll post them on YouTube.

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I couldn't agree more with you poeticlyskuac .. Good post :)

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