| Most guys eliminate any chance of success at a nightclub by falling into one of three bad body language profiles: The Predator, The Humper and the Drunk. Go to the second floor of any nightclub and look down at the dance floor. I promise you that you will see all of this terrible behavior in a matter of seconds.
THE PREDATOR is a well know type and a fantastic example of how poor body language and kill a room for you. The Predator is found either by himself or with a group of others of his kind. He is never having fun, he never speaks to his friends, he never "does his own thing." He left his house to get laid and for no other reason. His head darts rapidly around the room in search of women. When his eyes finally locate one, he stares like a serial killer. All are made uncomfortable by this behavior and you will find women trying to ignore them and then ultimately fleeing from them. Don't be this guy!
THE HUMPER is pretty self explanatory. This is the guy who wanders from woman to woman at a club attempting to dry hump them into next week. There is no excuse for this AT ALL! No woman on the planet wants a complete stranger to sneak up on them from behind and rub their junk against them. Would you walk to an attractive woman in a grocery store and instead of saying "hello", just start humping her ass? NO! Like I said, there is no excuse.
THE DRUNK commits more benign body language errors, but still has very little chance of success. We've all seen this akward mess dancing like a knob-end while clearing the dance floor of women. His eyes are glazed, he stammers about, holds him gaze for far too long. Women immediately assume that he is too socially inept to function in a highly social enviroment without being bombed out his skull. We all, however, have witnessed drunk men succeeding in a nightclub, but don't let that fool you. Jimi Hendrix was stoned all of the time, and Scotty Nguyen plays fantastic poker while drunk. Likewise, Brad Pitt could show up to a nightclub wasted and still do fine for himself. To anyone who isn't naturally unbelievable with women, getting drunk will hurt you socially more than it will help you.
If you want to avoid these problems, stick the usual rules of approaching. Move your focus away from yourself, and place it entirely on getting a read on the set you are approaching. Strong, confident body language allows one to meet people without setting of a million warning alarms. You are confident, in control and curious about the set you are approaching. You aren't drunk, you aren't hunting wild boar, and you are not in the shower of a penatentary.
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