First, I'm new to this community and not very succesfull at dating. I would like to disscuss this topic because I'm very confuse now. I'm pretty sure you all have seen Mystery; he wears, what, 2 or 0 gauge earrings, two or more wristbands on each arm, rings, necklaces, eyeliner, he has long hair...etc. I started reading this book called "always talk to strangers" by dating guru David Wygant and he says that guys wearing earrings are at least 10 YEARS OUT OF STYLE, and when a guy wears a necklace, a wristband and a ring all three at the same time is not a good first impression. That most men with long hair should cut it off or try to get a good hair style. He says that only FEW guys can pull-off a nice pony tail. To make this short, David's method is the opposite of Mystery. Keeping in mind that David is one of the most succesfull men when it comes to sedduction. What do you guys think about this. I have 4 gauge earrings and I don't know if this is a turn off to women.

he's a tool, dont listen to him, he obviously wants a million clones walking around using his methods

do what works and looks best for you...i would still be wearing my earing, but my ear got infected so i dont mess with it anymore

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

I'll tell you what, it's all about your personality and how you express yourself, looks only help in the aspect of attraction. In fact, I have long hair now and I've had short hair all my life and now that I have long hair, more girls are actually attracted to me. It's unique and I can pull it off and it shows confidence.
Anyways I digress, don't listen to what the tool says, just make yourself look more attractive such as getting cleaned up, taking care of your skin, teeth and hair better as well as your style. Improve your look and make sure it's congruent with your personality and your life. Being ordinary is one of the stupidest pieces of advice ever, standing out is what gets you noticed and if you're comfortable in doing so, then you emit confidence and alpha status.

4 gauge earrings are pretty big, so they might turn off some people that aren't into massive piercings.

I've got 4 rings in my left cartilage, starting at 12 gauge and going down a size each one further down and going from black, to bronze, to gold, then silver. I get a lot of comments on that one, cause it's got some style and flare to it, I've even had girls ask if they could touch it and then run their fingers down my ears a couple times. I've also got a barbell through my right ear and no one aside from my grandparents and my step-mother has been put off by it.

This is merely his opinion and his style, you should have whatever style suites you best, because if you change who you are to be exactly like someone else and don't keep who you are at the core, then you're not you anymore, you're just a social robot.

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I have recently been wearing a necklace (like most PUA's) that I actually made as a peacock item. Its a .45 cal silver bullet necklace. Girls always LOOK, ASK, THEN TOUCH it. Works like a charm! Its really cool! If anyone is interested in it and wants one get ahold of me...I made it and am thinking about marketing it.