smile and posture

seems like you're tilted a bit to your right.

try fixing your posture in the mirror and practice some genuine smiles

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First thing I'd do is lose the watch and the necklace. Next you could use a new haircut for sure. I'm not going to complain about a t-shirt, but I will say that I usually try to wear somewhat interesting t-shirts (even if it's just got a college's name on it or something.) It invokes questions sometimes. I've got a pair of black pants with my school mascot all over them. It's a Chanticleer, nobody outside of where I live has any idea of what that is. So again, it gives people an opener if they need one. I'm not big on the shorts either, but that's just me. I'd get some that are just above the knee and some boat shoes. But my style isn't necessarily the right one, it's just me.

I don't really advocate American Eagle, I thought it was great in high school. I was wrong.

Lifting heavy would be a good idea for you as well. You seem to have a decent enough body type if you worked out more.

I havnt read this entire post but im going to give you my opinion. Forget peacocking and looking outa the ordinary. Not to say it doesnt work but you cant go from no style ( no offense ) to having a crazy style you wont feel comfortable and thatll make the people around you feel the same. Find out what you feel comfortable in prepy clothing, skater, classy and go from there. Then go to your local mall find those stores look around at what they have. Try on those things you think ehhh and if your feeling confident enough ask a random stranger how does this look? Then go from there. Feeling confident will change how everyone looks at you. Look at mystery you think his style fits anywhere other then a magic show? no. But he looks good in it because he feels confident in it. I'm no expert but im just telling you how it worked for me. Take care and let me know how it turns out!

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Lose the necklace, makes you look younger than what you are, also if you was to go out dressed like that to pull then you'll be making it harder for yourself, don't wear shorts to a party etc but I suppose it's ok to be casual. I think you'd be suited to polo shirts too, as you have the right frame for them, and look up gaz from geordie shore to look for hair styles

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I was reading through these and everybody told you the essentials based on this picture - I don't think it hurts to reiterate, however.
O2 said to have a "casual but stylish" look. If you're unsure of what to buy because of the shape of your body go with a nice pair of pants (not jeans) that fit you well (not baggy) and a solid colored t-shirt that isn't baggy either. and example would be black slacks and a solid colored t-shirt from gap or banana or somewhere that is casual but elegant, you decide.

You are telling everyone how insecure you are on just taking the picture alone through your body posture. If you try what everyone told you to do to look more confident (straighten up, chest out, shoulders wide etc.) and you still feel awkward about it, start worrying less about how you move and more about not giving a fuck what everyone thinks about how you stand or walk, or to put it in deeper terms, come to accept yourself, cause when you do the confidence will start flowing out.

Work on your eye contact, as often as you can. all those girls you are too shy to look in the eye or inadvertently look away from when they meet your gaze are only saying one thing: im not good enough to be looking at these girls. thats just not true, otherwise you wouldn't even be on this forum.

you're not a bad looking dude, if by chance that is where your insecurities are stemming from. the comments you made about yourself made it seem like you are insecure. "And my head is quite large..."

I know I didn't really focus on your posture and all as much, but I went psychological on you, but its what natural to me, seeing as how I'm a psychology major as well. I wouldn't be telling you this had this stuff not been clicking for me like crazy these past few months.

Practice talking to everyone you have a chance to, and just ask them how their day was, this will translate into confidence, slowly but surely. I go to UT, and it was such a struggle my freshman year to talk to new girls, but once i cowboy'd up, it got easier.

Last but not least, when you get your style, confidence, and game (which you will) make sure you develop a part of your game that no one has. ex. the suave foreigner from south american, the romantic french guy, the sensitive musician. all these schemas girls have in their heads about good lovers, this will give you an edge, but don't copy anyone, let it be part of who you already are.

Hope this was informative. Much love and good luck.

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Clean your room xD

I personally don't wear shorts if I'm trying to attract women. Cargs and a standard t-shirt isn't really setting you apart from the crowd. You need to peacock a little more or do something edgier. The pua is the exception to the rule, he does what others don't.

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Judging by the way your dressed, you might live in the south, particularly coastal parts of Florida. Were I live (Southern coastal town), a lot of guys dress like that. Just keep in mind, while all these guys say to not wear shorts, it is hot as Satan's Urine out here. Its more unattractive to be a sweatty person then to wear shorts.

I live in the desert. The other night I was out walking around downtown and it was 104, and I was in jeans. Yes, I was sweating a little, but so was everyone else. You can always carry a bandana or cloth to wipe your brow. Temperature isn't really that big of an issue when it comes to what clothes you should be wearing.

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