Hey guys, I'd like to share my own little personal journey. Let me start off by saying that I am not trying to brag or shamelessly promote my accomplishments, but simply informing you of basic principles that have changed my life.

When I was young, I was painfully shy to the point where I had no friends and my anxiety of social situations actually produced nausea. I was bullied and ridiculed constantly put down by those around me -- and I have nobody to blame but myself for not doing anything about it.

I should note that I was never a bad looking guy either nor overweight or super skinny. Anyways, the bullying subsided in high school but my shyness remained. I was so socially awkward to the point that I knew girls were physically attracted to me, but they avoided conversation with me due to the painfully awkward conversation that would follow. The ONLY thing holding me back was my confidence. My body language was terrible. Head always down, hands always fidgeting, and constantly avoiding eye contact..

Anyway, I started reading up on PUA a few years ago -- had plenty of witty openers and routines, but I still lacked confidence. Still no progress with females. I decided to go to the gym alot and build a respectable body. I also ignored reading most "pua material" but focusing on body language and tips to influence people.

Let's fast forward to today. 95% of the time I go to a club/bar, I get hit on. Almost every time I go for a jog shirtless, I will get flirted with by attractive females. I am literally getting girls without trying. Let me also clarify that my game is shit. I am not great with my words or clever and hilarious. I just walked with confidence, I dress in fitted clothes, I always make eye contact and hold it to a girl I think is hot, I literally go out thinking that every girl is into me. I'm not cocky asshole. I'm actually a soft spoken guy. I'm considered good looking now because of my body, dress, body language and confidence.

You don't need to have clever lines, great openers and routines to manipulate girls! Improve yourself and make the girls come to you If you're anything like me, you still get anxiety when approaching women. I rarely do it still. I wish I had the natural game that some people do on here, but I simply do not. So rather than trying to work on pre-planned things to say, I just focus on my strengths and make them better than anyone elses.

Confidence is sexy. Style is sexy. Being fit is sexy. You don't NEED these things to be a successful PUA, but if you're like me and you still have glaring weaknesses in your game, there are things that you can do to sexually arouse a woman, and you don't have to even say shit. Girls used to think my shyness was a sign of insecurity, now they see it as mysterious and adorable

Do not underestimate the power of body language and the way you physically present yourself. If you want more specifics, please ask. This will change your life -- I am a walking testimony. I guarantee I was shyer than anybody in these forums