Is there such thing as too much eye contact?(non verbal). As in...i'm sitting in class and the HB turns around and we make eye contact. I normally hold it for a few seconds so it's not like the moment we make EC i break away. But normally hold it for a few seconds and then look away(horizontal) as if i'm not interested in what i see(even if i am).

Do you guys advise me to ALLLLLWAAYYYSS keep EC until THEY break it? I've become a lot more comfortable with EC, but i defiantly don't want to look creepy. I usually have on a straight face and only smile when she smiles first. Although i have to still work a lot on my inner game...from first impression i have an alpha build(physically). So i don't know if i portray that i'm having a blast at all times(smiling) ...or have a look of "ehh, nothing special" as i'm looking at the HB. Words of wisdom ? Thanks for reading!

I say hold until she breaks it... if it's taking longer then you feel it should keep the eye contact and initiate other non-verbal advances.

I've gotten k-closes before ever saying a word by doing that.

Note: You have to be in an EXTREMLY alpha frame for that sort of thing to work... but when you can k-open a girl the f-close is comming damn quick

Ok thanks man..i will defiantly start doing that from now on.

But as to my question about facial expression wise. I basically mean, should you walk before you initiate the eye contact example: when you're trying to EC her as she's coming down the hallway....with a straight nonchalant face..or having a slight smile on my face as someone had put "your in a joke that no one knows about)", or something like that. Thanks .

looking people directly in the eyes is huge i have noticed a huge difference in the way people percieve me now since i dont look away when someone is talking to me

I would say that the hotter the HB the farther away you can EC and hold it.

I would walk towards them EC smile back when they smile and then either open if they slow down like they are going to open you, or when you get a couple steps away throw up your hand put on a huge grin, blurt out "high 5" and stop in your tracks waiting for the 5er.

Those work pretty good as basic openers with the HB walking towards you.

just smile. if she looks at you, and you guys connect, just give her a quick smile and go back to whatever you were doing. dont just look down as soon as she catches you, then it looks like you've got no balls. assert yourself, then get back to w/e is more important than her, which is w/e you were doing.

imo

eye contact is a measure of purity, or if not of purity of vibratory resonance of ones soul to anothers

the longer either of you are able to hold eye contact the more likely it is you have a chance with the other


if you look away before she does you look like your intent is not pure
also if you look maliciously she will be afraid and uncomfortable

however if you hold your ec with affection and show love in your eyes (rather than lust, even if you only feel lust) then you have a much greater chance of gaining her trust

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What do you see when you look at a woman, not what she looks like, not her hair, not her body shape... what do you see underneath all that... i see that animal in her, that beast...

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Look at her, when she notices you stay on her for a long 3 seconds - then, look down and then back up at her. She will then get the idea that you've seen her and she's worth a second look.