| Hey guys, something dawned on me this morning and I wanted to share. If you can master this, you will have some serious draw and will barely need rapport building. Shit women will open you!
I grew up on a farm around big animals. These animals such as horses, cows, dogs all listened to me, not because I was bigger than them but because I knew how to speak with them.
Domesticated animals were created by man out of feral species. In the paleolithic and neolithic we needed guards for instance, the wolf was perfect. It's superior ears, smell and other senses protected us and it's vocalization alerted our tribal ancestors to intruders. So the wolf began following our hunting parties, watching us, feeding off scraps and one day figured us out. This innate ability to read people is something all animals do, but particularly intelligent domesticated animals. It's bred into them. They read us and if you work with them enough you know how to speak to and read them.
A weak person approaches a horse (even if it's broken) in jerky, quick and unsure movements. The horse will always freeze and focus it's attention on anyone who approaches it but especially if it doesn't know them. A shot of adrenaline runs through their blood and the fight or flight instinct is activated. Yes, even in animals there is approach anxiety. This is why you feel it and why they feel it. When a weaker person speaks to a horse their words tend to come out laced with fear and uncertainty. I have seen horses charge people like this. They sense any weakness or fear within a human almost immediately because we designed them to do that.
I learned at a very young age to use slow, deliberate movements when approaching any animals and when I speak it is even, firm (but not coarse) and calm. If I make a sudden movement or my vocal tonality slips the animal will sense it, tense and some cases charge. If you do it right the horse or big animal will trust you almost instantly and that bond is not easily broken. These animals are designed to figure you out. It's one reason why women bring new guys around their animals. They watch to see how their animals react because the animals can read you better than the woman.
Many, many of my female friends have commented how they felt an instant trust with me that they can't explain. Truth be told, I didn't even figure it out. This is why kids adore me as well. With these movements and vocalizations you are broadcasting two things. "You are safe with me. But, don't fuck with me" a clever line from the "Most interesting man in the world" sums it up as well, "He is a lover, not a fighter, but he is also a fighter so don't get any ideas" I have stopped doing it to a degree since moving to the city so I need to redevelop it to a minor degree. This also explains why traumatized women tend to flock to me. Traumatized animals pull the same trick.
I would seriously consider a couple things. First if you live in a rural area, work part time on a ranch or farm just to see how body language is perceived on an instinctual level. Those animals WILL let you know how they see you. If you don't live in a rural area, try working at an animal shelter or something like that, or teach a neighbors dog how to do tricks. *Be warned, just like any animal a part of them is still wild and they will attack be careful and use judgment* However, if you master it, you will be the one in charge in any set you open. You will still have some approach anxiety, but a couple of dolled up women aren't shit to a giant pull horse. You should approach any set like you are approaching an animal that doesn't know you. The women will feel it almost immediately.
I would also watch the Horse Whisperer. It will give you a broad sense of what I am talking about and will clue you in to the romanticism women have about stuff like this.
Good luck, M2.
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