This may seem like I'm over-analysing but how do you guys stand when seducing a girl, and even in general. Hands in pockets, thumbs hooked into back pockets, or are your hands constantly gesticulating so there's no need to worry about where to put them? Does it matter?

Thanks,
M.A.D

I stand up straight with my shoulders back and chest slightly puffed out. I flex my abs a little too. It seems awkward, but if you practice it at home it becomes natural. Stand however you feel relaxed, but make sure to use positive body language (palms out, no leaning in ect.)

You are not over-analyzing at all. The way you stand and what you do with your hands is very important. It's a silent language.

When you stand with your back straight, chest out, head up and hang your hands at your sides. Keep your feet about should width apart. You should be communicating to her that you "own the place."

Do NOT put your hands in your pockets. If you put your hands in your pockets, what ends up happening most of the time is that it causes you to slouch or hunch over, bringing your shoulders forward and chest in. It communicates that you either feel scared, awkward, or unsure of what you're doing so you resort to your default stance of putting your hands in your pockets.

Instead, use your hands to your advantage by using them to motion or gesture assertively when you speak to let her know that you are confident and you are sure of what you're saying.

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Andy Yang
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