Granted I have a bit of self esteem issues and used to be extremely insecure.
However I've upgraded my personality lost some weight and got smarter .etc etc

Anyways I seem to have developed a mentality where I should look straight as a board from a sideway view, maybe because a lot of my peers are pretty skinny.
So I'm been dieting hard and doing cardio to try an slim down legs thighs and ass (sounds like a girl right? but I don't like that stocky snowman build most guys pursue)

What type of exercises should I do to get that slim slim look?
I always say, the buff guy looks good without clothes while the slim guy does and vice versa
**Also been having some major lazy factor I've actually gained a good 10 pounds of fat these couple months. Anyway to stay motivated?