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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 7:19 pm 
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I was wondering what are some body language signs that would be thrown at you that most people wouldn't notice, other than the obvious ones. thanks.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 1:43 am 
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Well this is one of the biggest things you must learn to use when picking up women. Girls give their hearts intentions away with their body and really don't realize it. Preening is the biggest thing guys don't notice, and that's when a girl pulls her cloths down, or sits up really strait when you look towards her. It's an instinctive reaction women have when a guy they're interested in looks at them. It's basically an invite to look at them. Their allot of subtle cue's women have that will help you allot in your pick up game. This doesn't make things easier because you still have to talk with them and overcome the obstacles they will place before you to overcome.


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If she's playing with her hair or touching it at all - looking for you to pay attention to her.

Body facing towards you - interesting in what you're saying.

Fingers in mouth - looking for reassurance or compliment of some kind.

If she's leaning on her hand while you talk, people normally think it means interest, it actually means you need to liven the subject up.

When people touch their faces a lot it's meant to mean they are having a negative thought every time they do it, so make them feel more comfortable.

Arms crossed across body - seen as negative, but this is generally only true if the arm/s cross high on the body or seem to act as a barrier. Some people just rest their arms lightly across their abdomens because they feel comfortable that way.

Studies showed that people's body language whilst taking notes in lectures actually had an effect on their subconscious. Some people were asked to hold negative postures during a lesson and others open and positive ones, at the end they tested the groups and the found out the ones holding positive stances took more in and felt more positive.

So basically you need to disarm negative body language in a target.
So for example, if she has crossed arms in any sense, pull a kino and ask to see her bracelet or ring or ask to see her hands (puts out palm up - she's open to you ; palms down - negative attitude) then do a routine of palm reading.


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Good post AZ.

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When people touch their faces a lot it's meant to mean they are having a negative thought every time they do it, so make them feel more comfortable.
AZ where did you hear this? im interested in learning more about this


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I read A LOT lol.
I recommend getting hold of a book/ebook on body language/non verbal communication (NVC)
If you're looking for a simple straight to the point book then - "How to read others' thoughts by their gestures" by Allan Pease is a good starting point.

I find it comes naturally to me to be able to read people's NVC anyways, since I usually don't talk much unless I want to/playing the game/writing shit lol, I have an intuitive nature.
Like today was weird cause my friend was sat at the same table as me and I was like "you ok??" and she said she was fine and later I found out she had bad cramps. Was odd. But it's cause I noticed her NVC shifted and she hugged her stomach subtly (we were in college), which she never does in her normal body language.

I'd recommend going out to public places such as bars, cafes, shops, basically anywhere, but bars are great cause ppl are a little more relaxed and aren't conscious of their NVCs (alcohol lol) and just sitting and watching ppl out of the corner of your eye.
It's interesting how much you can imagine a conversation is about simply by NVC, if you cant hear the words you rely on other signs.
Try turning the tv down as well and try to work out what ppl are discussing or talking about based on NVC as well.

Have funn ;)


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