Hey guys

Basically, today I met up with one of my friends and something strange happened.
About a month ago, I'd say she was a 5/10 AT BEST. But today, for some reason, I would genuinely rate her 9/10. I have no idea how she did it but it actually felt different speaking to her.

Now this leads to me to thinking, are there any tips on how to improve appearance in general? If it is helpful, I can show photographs of me in different states (edits, younger pics, casual pics, dressed up etc.)

Any advice you can give would be very much appreciated

J Fang

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"To be a true player, you need to learn how to play." - Shaggy

Yes. Make up will make you prettier. Style used make up and he kept it in his man-bag; his murse. People like to forget that part in The Game. Personally, I'm a man and the idea of make up hurts my masculinity and my self image, so the trade off isn't worth it for me. Also, men who wear make up are fucking us all. Think about it, if women never started wearing make up, they wouldn't have to compete with an impossible standard of beauty today. Do you want to contribute to a world where a guy won't be considered handsome anymore unless he's wearing concealer and blush?

Okay, no more soapbox. Look, do what you have to to make yourself like your appearance. I grin at myself in the mirror, it's a problem. I've been working on my image for a long time and I got it to a place where I just like looking at myself. This boosts my confidence. Sure, it's mindlessly narcissistic and shallow, but I freaking like it. Don't let people decide your image, you make the changes and keep the ones you like. You're a man, be brave and try new shit out. And if no one else likes it, fuck them. For a man, your body and your hair are most important. Your hair will grow back, so try a bunch of different shit. And never underestimate the power of the gym.

That's some good advice! I'm thinking for my next haircut as maybe a clipper cut? Shave (almost all of it) off and see what happens! If it looks bad, I can just wear a cap over it. As for my body, well I'm underweight, curvy (for a male) and well-toned.

Speaking of which, today at my work, one girl I work with was a 5 / 10 the other week, this week she was a 10 / 10 ! Make up, new haircut, hair coloring, better clothes...

Any tips on clothes or hair colors? I tried some blue hair coloring once but it went blonde like straight away (my hair is jet black).

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"To be a true player, you need to learn how to play." - Shaggy

Haha, a guy calling himself curvy. What hair colors are okay depend on your age. Anything goes if you're under 25. I use clippers, I shave my own head because I'm a bad ass. Well actually, at one point I just couldn't afford haircuts, but now I cut my hair better than pros. I have no suggestions on what you should try, I only know what works for me. Just try a grip of clothes on and keep the ones that make you feel like a player. The point isn't to impress other people, it's to impress you, which will boost your own confidence even if people think you're out of style or whatever.

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31 and still figuring it out.