Hi guys,
I was told that BL is very important when it comes to pick-up as women don't say it when they're interested, they show it. So it is upto us, to understand when they show it and make the appropriate advances. Therefore, I've spent the last couple of days reading and studying body language, going to the mall to observe people's body language etc.
So, in this post, i'm just going to share with you, what I learnt in the last couple of days.
NOTE: I have just written the most important gestures and signals. There are tons more to learn about body language.
Now listen up, there's 3 rules of reading BL:
RULE1: Read in clusters ( do not interpret by a single signal. Observe her BL before and after the signal for a current reading)
RULE2: Check for congruency (her words may lie. but her BL never lies)
RULE3: Read gestures according to context.
EG: In BL, if she scratches her head, it means an expression of doubt. But it can also mean that she has dandruff.
HAND SIGNALS
1. OPEN PALMS: Dogs show their throats to convey submissiveness. Men show their palms.
This shows that she is open to what you are saying. It is also a sign of submissiveness and if she is showing the open palms while telling you something, it means she is telling the truth.
Eg: If she tells you that she is not interested in you, but she has her palms open, that means it is safe to persist. But if she has her palms closed, while saying it, you better leave.
2. PALMS KEPT OUT OF SIGHT:
When a person hides his palms while talking, it's usually a lie.
3. PALMS DOWN:
This is a sign of dominance. People are more likely to obey your request when you expose your palms. Giving people orders while having your palms down immediately comes out as authoritative and while it is appropriate in the office (if you are the boss) it may come out as offending while you're out sarging.
SMILE
Smiling is THE most important gesture anyone can make.
If you want to create instant rapport, then SMILE! 
When a woman smiles, it does not necessarily mean that she is interested in what you're saying. Maybe she's faking it. So it is important to identify when her smiles are genuine and when it is fake.
A smile is achieved by the constriction of 2 facial muscles. While the fake smile just involves the movement of the lips,
a genuine smile involves exposing the teeth and wrinkles at the eye
ARMS
CROSSED ARMS- A sign of defensiveness. A person with this gesture does not want anything to get out or anything to come in.
If you're target is assuming this position, give her something to hold on to (a prop) so that her arms uncross and will become much more open to what you say.
STANDING WITH ONE PALM CATCHING THE OTHER HAND'S ELBOW:
Is a feeling of insecurity. Givin some reassurance to this person will earn you great points!
Other gestures with the same meaning : Hugging her handbag or her shopping bag etc.
NOTE:
Touching the elbow of another person momentarily and lightly creates attention, reinforces commitment, highlights a concept and increases your influence over the other person.
In terms of body language, a male female interaction happens in 5 stages:
STAGE1: Eye contact
STAGE2: Smiling
STAGE3: Preening ( Sits up straight, tilts her head, plays with hair etc)
STAGE4: Talk
STAGE5: Touch
The 12 most common IOIs women from around the world give men when they are attracted:
1. Head Toss and the hair flick
2. Wet lips and pouting (Mouth slightly open)
3. Exposed wrists
4. Looking over the shoulder
5. Rolling hips
6. Self touching (When a woman slowly, touches her thighs, neck or throat, if the man plays his cards right, he will be able to do the same to her)
7. Limp wrist (A submissive signal used exclusively by women)
8. Fondling a cylindrical object (She telling you about the things that are yet to come)
9. The shoe fondle ( Image search in google)
10. Handbag in close proximity (She keeping her handbag close to you means that she is ready to share her private things with you.)
11. Leg Twine (An act used consciously by women to raise attraction to her legs)
12. The pelvic tilt
The thing about body language is without practicing to observe, you tend to misinterpret the signals. And at the beginning, when you're having a conversation, you forget all about body language. Thus constantly remind yourself to observe other's as well as your BL during an interaction.
Hope this helped you! Cheers!
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