k, thought I bring it up to you guys because answers.yahoo.com suck dick.

I know women talk backwards. Also, not to listen to their words but body language. I'll try to cut this short.

This chick I thought she was into me. When I first met her, she was staring at me and arched her back when I looked back. Now the guy that was next to her said something and she laughed.

In class, she would sit by me and I would tease her like usual. I teased her about her nails saying, "I like your nails" and grabbed her hand and looked at them "Are they black?" She said, "No, dark blue" and I said, "Well, your not cool then! " She said, I don't strive to be cool. I laughed because it was cute.

Now, I noticed the guy behind us licking his lips - don't know if it's towards her or what.

So, i've been getting these thoughts that they been fucking in the office. Blah blah. I talked to them in the therapy room because they know I struggle with this. I told her the "evidence" i collected like her arching her back, and the guy licking his lips. I could see the inner anger she had - but of course she couldn't tell me off.

She told me, "Well, your "evidence" you've collected, your' only seeing what signs you want to see. However, it could be completely different."

I told her, "Yeah your right" and she put her hands up and said, "I'm just saying it could be a possibility."

Putting her hands up in front of her, means that she possibly didn't mean to say that right out - or possibly have me not think worse about her and the dude.

My question to you guys - what do you think she was telling me? If your a girl then great!

Also, when I analyze them again - I see she's not interested. Her body is turned slightly when they talk, like this one time she was gossiping about someone to him and she was slouched over, body slightly turned away from him. She could be interested in just telling him the story but not interested in him sexual.

I notice long time ago when she did arch her back, she did look at me for acouple seconds. Also, she teases me alot. She told me she's a trouble maker, and she breaks the rules. Which turns me on but also makes the thoughts worst about her and Anthony.

I want to get rid of these thoughts, I had the same problem before at my apartment.

So help me out - thanks! Tell me what you think of the situation.

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Before I get to what I think is going on here, I am going to give you some advice here. When you are reading a girls body language you must always always take in the girls personality. Because just because some girl is showing some body language that indicates "interest" does not always mean she is interested. You made the mistake of reading to much into this without even stepping back to look at the bigger picture here. Also you can not just look for single interest indicators. You must take in the whole picture not parts of it. Just because some girl is leaning back does not mean she is interested or even showing signs of being interested. The girl in question here even told you this even when you talked to her.


As far as what is going on with this girl, she is not interested in you at all and just likes the playful flirting that is going on between the two of you.

Well, the could be true. She does have a flirty personality. What I was saying was she indirectly telling me she was fucking that guy or she likes that guy by saying, "By collecting evidence you only chose to look at signs of one way, but it could be completely different." but then when I said, "Yeah your right." she put her hands up in front of her and said, "I'm just saying that could be a possibility."

That's what I'm confused about. What did she mean by that? When I see Anthony and her interact, it seems like their just friends but if they were I still have those thoughts of anthony fucking her in the office. While in group, I stealthy check but nothing's happening. I think my thoughts were triggered by old pieces of what I saw long time ago with her; like arching her back and such.

Also, talking to the guy - he says, "It's much better to have girls as friends!" Alittle bit for you. Which I think she may have put him in the friends zone - because any man with that mentality should be put int eh LJBZ.

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You are getting to caught up in this. Stop looking at every single detail and trying to find what it means. As far as what she said, read what she said to you again:

"By collecting evidence you only chose to look at signs of one way, but it could be completely different."

She made it pretty clear to you what she meant. You are viewing things one way because you are choosing to view them that way even tho they are not. Which is the same thing I said in my post above. As I said STOP look for every single sign of interest and look at the whole picture. You need to get off the PUA "rule book" and go with the "flow" as you seem to think this girl will act according to PUA guidelines and she is clearly not.
Or that he is not the relationship type person and think its better to keep girls as friends with sex on the side. I have run into guys that have said the same thing only to mean they want friends with benefits.

Yeah.

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