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| Ezo | PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:23 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:04 pm Posts: 4238 | | Ok I want to share a revelation!
Some of you are aware of the problem that as a PUA you develop more and more game and become better and better up to a certain point. At this point it seems that your game goes backwards and nothing works anymore. Sets do not open, it becomes hard to build attraction and the closes goes down in number. Why is this? The answer is so simple that I cannot believe I didnt see it before.
Incongruence.
As you develop your avatar you take all the advice and make it playful funny high energy etc etc. I go out peacocking in the extreme, Mystery Style. What I did not understand was that as you progress as a PUA your inner game improves automatically. You start really not caring about the outcome of a set. You automatically go for more and more difficult sets and you know that the next set will be just around the corner so you just dont care.
Extreme peacocking conveys a high energy personality and if you can not live up to this (because you do not care) you will feel wierd to people. As your inner game improves you have to adjust your peacocking accordingly. If you start feeling laid back about opening 5 sets of HB*s you should dress a bit more laid back. Your old peacocking clothes become too try hard.
You also have to adjust your game, if you are too laid back it does not build the tension it used to. In the beginning you are all nervous and that alone has some energy. This is close to what Style called social robots. You know the steps but they have become mechanical and do not feel real anymore.
An advice that I will take myself: Even if you raise to the skies, stay on this planet!
Ezo
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