| So yesterday I found out my ex-girlfriends current boyfriend is in my Math class.
Let me back up, this girl is the one I "let get away." I dated her a few years back for a while and she was seriously perfect for me in every way but one of the few girls who's virginity I couldn't crack (being a teenager at the time with a bunch of other girls eating out of my hand I had to let her go to get my nut which in retrospect was really bad because we were so good together.)
A guy caught her on the rebound and they were dating for 3 years.
Fast forward to last summer, she split with her rebound guy so I started trying to chat her up again in a VERY AFC way. This was before i discovered the game and I was in a biiiig slump with absolutely zero confidence and mojo. Obviously after what I put her through she wouldn't give me the time of day (especially with my pathetic drunk texts) but entertained me with the "let's just be friends" mentality so we talked a tiny tiny bit on Facebook and through texts every now and then.
Just recently her rebound guy and her got back together. This guy is kind of the epitome of everything I hate. He's not good looking at all, dresses like a white rapper, and, I'm assuming, acts like an average goofy "thug".
Yesterday, lo and behold, this guy walks into my math class. We made eye contact for a second when I think both of us realized who the other was. I kept my mouth shut and didn't talk to him, same with him, although when we moved to the computer lab he tried to sit next to me (his computer was fucked so he had to switch spots which probably saved me an awkward conversation.)
I'm sure he's heard a bunch of shitty stories about me.
So a couple hours after class I was curious and hopped on Facebook to see if they were still dating and I found out my ex blocked me from her profile. Obviously this means she knows I'm now in class with her boyfriend.
Anyway, this girl is my one-itis and every time I get over her, life throws me a curveball and somehow puts her back in my life. What should be my next move? Me and this guy probably have a mutual hatred for one another so I feel any interaction with him is going to lead to problems but unfortunately I'm stuck with him all semester.
I've been half-gaming another girl in the same class so I think it'd be cool for him to see me flirting with other girls who are into me ("This guy is an animal, he keeps picking up random girls on campus.") Also, I've been throwing around the idea of trying to make friends with him so he can go back and say "Yeah, Stylite, he's actually a pretty cool guy..." (Which I highly doubt is possible seeing as how he probably sees me as a threat)
All in all, should I:
A.) Ignore him as long as I possibly can and just play cool and give off the "I'm over it" vibe if he confronts me
B.) Display kind of a "bigger man" behavior and approach him "Oh hey, aren't you XXXXXX's boyfriend? Nice to meet you man..."
C.) Game other girls around him so it looks like I'm successful with girls in hopes that he passes along how confident I am to my ex who currently thinks I'm a weak little bitch.
I am 80% sure this guys is NOT RIGHT for her. But she always had a bruised ego and low self esteem for someone who is beautiful, smart, faithful and fun; and I suspect our break up broke her down even more so she's in the position where she thinks she can't do better, and this lucky guy KNOWS he can't do better.
I know, plenty of fish in the sea, one-itis is weak, blah blah blah, but in all reality, I'd be totally happy if i got with this girl again.
- Stylite
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