Hey all,

I have a question about masturbation, grateful for any input anyone wants to give. Okay, so today is my 58th day without masturbating. I was wondering if anyone has gone longer and what effects they found on pickup. Also, does anyone think that 58 days is too long? Appreciate your thoughts

- enigma 7

Maybe this is because I'm a girl, but I don't do too much masturbation at all. I think being very aroused could possibly make you more desperate to pick up. So maybe you should masturbate more? Most guys don't go too long without masturbating. It has been written that a lack of masturbation helps you with picking up because you haven't been satisfied. . .hope this helps!

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nooo way. lol

Hold back man IMO. When I dont masturbate, I start seeing women less like sex objects and more as a friend / potential pick up. My game gets better because my brain knows im not getting any, and it seems to make me much more personable and/or more confident to walk up to any girl i want. Why? I have no clue. There is no negative effects of not doing it

lol well then you should definitely keep not masturbating.

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also a higher sex drive makes you go out and meet people. IF you masturbate you won't have that sex drive.

the girl in here has a point? rembember about self amusement people!! how do u no for sure that masturbation has negative side effects? it could be all in the mind, if you lack hornyness go out to exercise, take zinc, vitamin c, and even hook up at horny goat weed hahah,

Hahaha!! Bit of pumpkin pie also. Hah. Hmmmmm. I'm not sure if there is any evidence to support if it affects you negatively only that if you watch porn and masturbate and then it comes to the time you bring a girl home it will be harder to get it up because she doesn't look like a porn star!!! Only solution: Game a porn star ;P

58 days? Kudos bro. I normally do it like once a weeek. Lol I personally don't see how masturbation affects your game I think that its just all mental

i use to pinch the snake alot, not so much anymore and i feel much better im not sure why though

When I'm in study-mode I tend to do it to keep my sex drive in-check but otherwise I'm fucking, so my sex drive is normally satisfied.

This whole I-can-fuck-anytime-i-want thing is great. Does great things for my inner confidence too.

Personally, I think it's best to limit masturbation to once every two weeks, but that's more like a motivator for me to pick up. For me, being horny as hell from not masturbating has helped my game, but for others, it may cause a few problems because the pua/rafc could become desperate to get laid, which tends to kill chances at getting anything. (Unless, of course, the girl is a walking STD. In which case, you don't wanna tap that anyway.) Figure out what works for you and go with it. Experiment and pay specific attention to how your game is before and after masturbation, and that could help you out quite a bit. But if you lasted 58 days, then damn dude. Much respect for that. Haha.

This is not something to be proud of bro. You are killing your own sex drive.
Use it or loose it. Masturbate at least twice a week if you dont have access to pussy. It is physically neccessary for body and keeps you going about the puss.

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Yeah.. Twice a week may be too often, but you really need to keep everything working down there. Once every 7-10 days is necessary if you're not having sex regularly.

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Use it or loose it. Necessary for your body. You need to keep everything working down there? Where does this nonsense come from?

Masturbation is not required to maintain a healthy sex drive and sexual function. What do you think was happening in the state of nature. Cavemen wacking off precisely once a week?

If you want to increase your sex drive live like a caveman. Lots of exercise, water, no junk food, no alchohol, no smoking, no drugs, get outside lots, sunlight, low stress.

Stopping masturbation can be good for pu. Telling yourself I can only orgasm if it's with a woman will get you out there practising pu. If you know you can come back to your favourite porn and a wank then you don't have as much motivation.

Stopping fantasy based masturbation and in particular porn gave me a lot more confidence. I found I became less goal orientated which led to better results. Things became more about vibing and I started to meet some cool girls, not just hot girls to bang. I was also more aroused by a girl femininity i.e. not just big boobs. Masturbation / Porn can also desensitise physically, e.g. a hard grip technique will make a soft blowjob feel less pleasurable, and mentally by rewiring the brain's reward circuitry - see yourbrainonporn.com

Out of interest is your abstinence part of a reboot?

maturbation isn't bad, it's good for the soul.