in regards to oral sex (in particular, face fu*king if everything goes right)

what are the chances of genital diseases being transfered via "head". Herpes, hpv etc

im considering getting into it with a jumpoff HB9 who unfortunantly is pretty loose as far as i hear. i know she has a decent amount of miles, so im a little hesitant.

i prefer handjobs to be honest but if she starts sucking, i dont know whether i could resist stopping her....

if there are no sores, can i be pretty sure?

Well it was my understanding that all STD viruses could be transferred via oral sex, and that only certain STD bacteria could; since bacteria is localized whereas viruses are blood borne. HIV, herpes, hpv, are all viruses, therefore they can be transferred.
But if you wear a condom, there should be no blood exchange, so your risk will be far less. The only STDs you could get would be, STDs that transfer via contact as well as blood, such as herpes.

i always get mixed answers with the oral question

Hey I was curious if, when, and how you guys bring STD's up with the person you are going to have sex with. On the one hand I feel like can impact the SPAM right before having sex, especially if it is the first time or with someone whom I haven't known for that long. On the other hand, it's a pretty important topic.

Any advice is helpful. Thanks fellas.

Telling someone is always going to be a little awkward, but you need to disclose that fact. Telling a partner about an STD after a confirmed diagnosis may be a criminal offense in some states.Try being direct and honest. Mention the type of STD you have and how you got it. You don't have to share every detail, but showing that you're open to talking and answering questions can help your partner feel more comfortable too. Allow the conversation to flow naturally, don't push your partner to make decisions about sex or your relationship right away, and finally encourage your partner to ask questions and give them some time to decide how they want to proceed. And always hope for the best;)
-Lindsay

Just from my experience, there was a stint where i had just broken up with me ex and she was the first girl i ever banged without condoms. When i became single again i had a HUGE problem going back to using condoms especially when i was drunk. I would rip them off during sex all of the time. I ended up getting an STD scare and i freaked out. so what i do now in order to stop my drunk self from ripping of condoms is i keep both normal and thin condoms around. Yes thin ones can rip but the way i look at it is i am less likly to pull a thin one off when im drunk becase i actually can feel compared to a normal condom which feels like their is a brick wall around my cock. So if you are having this problem to you should give it a try. I might even get condoms that are thicker in order to last longer for when im sober and I'm worried about loosing it to quickly. Its like having a plan for every situation.