With the taoist semen retention system instead of ejaculating you recirculate your
sexual energy by not having regular orgasm but a series of rolling orgasms,
same goes for the woman who is practicing with you.Dual cultivation allows you to
receive the yin (female) energy from the woman thus achieving balance
with your yang (male) energy correspondingly for her.You achieve energy transfer via genital contact,lips/tongue,eyes and touch.If both parties reach the skill level it will allow heightened spiritual awareness/enlightenment.

You can download Mantak Chia's " Secrets of taoist love- Cultivating male sexual energy" and "Multi orgasmic man" for details if you know where to find them.

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No, I want to be respectful but that is make believe. We have a thing called science, we know that there are nerves in our bodies. There is not two different energies balancing each other out.
I fully agree with your body doesn't know if its your hand or a vagina. Also if it was some mental game you could play to make yourself do it, then your mind would not allow you to masturbate. If you want to go 40 days without doing that then try that when your with a girl, no volunteers? and even if you did then she would be disappointed when you finish in two mins.

+1 Faust23

Look, if not jerking off helps you, that's fine, good for you. If it helps you in whatever goals you have in life, by all means keep on keeping on. My point, simply, is to keep in mind that not all journey's to success and happiness follow the same path. I don't buy into any of the concepts of energy that were previously mentioned. And the mind is a powerful thing. I personally believe positivity deriving from not masturbating comes from the placebo effect. You think "i've gone all week without jacking off, I will be so awesome tonight at the club." So you're confident, you go out, and have a great night, get laid, whatever you want. Is that the result of not jerking it? Or is it the result of telling yourself that everything will just click without ever questioning it?

Just saying there is a big difference between "it helped me to abstain from masturbation," and "everyone should abstain from masturbation."

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These hos ain't loyal

I can understand your disbelief as much of modern civilisation is based on western science but it does not have a monopoly of all knowledge.Example: who invented paper on which printing is based? Similarly what about gun powder and the compass? All western science can say for sure is that if there is evidence of a phenomenon then it could be real and worth investigating.

The chinese science of accupuncture was based on ancient taoist scientific observation.Same goes for semen retention which is 8000 years old.The western science protocol of repeatability of a phenomenon is a solid criterion which you can test the assertion of semen retention claims.Plus the benefit of you being able to have multiple orgasms as a man,lasts longer that in all likelyhood giving and satisfying women with multiple orgasms and with the added benefit of energy transfer of chi.You also contribute to beneficial change of mankind by this sexual practice. In taoist thinking chi is present in all living things and inanimate objects.
You can't see chi just like electromagnetism but you can feel it's effects.

This is not make belief but documented and proven evidence.

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i think your missing the point.
i think what we are actually doing here is to motivate ourselves to go and get pussy rather than jacking off.. the forty days in my point of view is the point where we should at least hve had some
results.. besides some girls are amazed of the shit load of cum that one gives after a few weeks of holding it ha...

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As you may well know, its been nearly a week since i started this challenge.

Last night i went out clubbing with my afc friend and a girl (just a flat mate) and we had a great time, well i did anyway lol

Just to share some of the highlights: Im 19 and i almost k-closed a 22yr old Blonde HB who was probably the hottest in the club

My game was really solid i wasnt nervous at all and i could feel the alpha male vibe in me. Really confident and relaxed

I didnt even use the best openers, one was "hey can you take a picture of us" and then i asked the blonde hb to join us and she did and out of no where she starts to kino me

had a great convo (20mins) but she was leaving the city tommorow :l

The other HB i approached (she was just standing alone with her friend) i went along with "wow you look really depressed" then "whats up with that"

her reaction was she immediately glowed up and she replied with a big smile "oh im not really"

Me: Well you have a cute face but your ruining it a little

and then i got dragged out by my friends!! but could tell she really wanted to carry on the convo

The point of this masturbation challenge is just to see how it affects my game and whether it helps

So far its been positive but its hard because i have a strong urge to do the deed lol

Just to finish up My afc friend even said to me at the end of the night "wow you were a predator tonight" those were his words lol

Hope this helps

Soncheese x

And why couldn't you do this after jacking off? I love this I had a great night so obviously it because your not jacking off, next you can say the socks you were wearing were lucky. So if you wear those socks again you will be awesome.... hey

I had a great night last weekend and I ate a grill cheese sandwich before, so if I eat one before I go out I will have another great night?

You dont seem to understand this simple concept.

Not masturbating for a week = becoming increasingly horny and therefore you become extremely attracted to girls.

Masturbating before you go out = you lose your horny-ness momentum and only the "your type of girls" attract you which you dont always find

And so far this idea seems to be the case

Im not saying theres a direct link thats just plain and simply retarded i know.

But all im trying to do is see if it helps with my game or not. It doesnt hurt to try it.

So understand that and stop hating buddy

Soncheese x

if your reading this post you should check this link out:

smooth-k-close-2-set-in-a-club-vt136146.html

its my recent club game experience

Soncheese x

Going to give this a try, In the last 3 months I haven't masturbated more then twice a week so it shouldn't be to difficult, however I still can't get over the 3 week hurdle so going to do a update every week on here to make me more inclined to keep with it.
I also have written 1 on my left hand and 39 on right to keep reminding me of my goal.

To those who doubt this benefits of stopping masturbating have you tried this for yourself? and how often do you meditate?

The benefits of masturbating are not just a confidence booster they also boost your testosterone levels as you lose 1/3 of RDA of zinc when you masturbate, zinc is involved in the production of testosterone. Therefore less masturbation= better performance in the gym.

Eyrie

After a week see If you can get through this 60 seconds without going at it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flIZrXdK ... re=related

Omg why would you post something like that on this thread

That tongue action is crazy no doubt lol

Soncheese x

Sorry, couldn't resist. At least I didn't post this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYi-eTJrey8 Then you really would have been in danger of breaking your fap free week

i think its a great idea ,, last time i tried this i reached 11 days

i'm joining u guys in this challenge
goal => 1 week

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well its now being 11 days for me so far.. and i got to say that its starting to get difficult. every morning i have to take a cold shower to get it down.. and also because id been to the clubs and i have like several chicks grinding on my dick.. but dude i has helped me to become more motivated to talk to chicks i even think that they could feel the energy i radiate. they sometimes are the ones that start talking to me.

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