First of all, HI.
Secondly - LONG TIME NO SEE.
I joined this forum a few years ago as a virgin, a worst-case-example of a loser dealing with women and as a guy who mastrubated to what-not on YOUPORN or whatever site I could find people having sex. Hell, Im getting depressed over my previous life.
I started to apply some basic stuff from this forum, to find myself a girlfriend (I was not intending to check up girls, have sex, and go for a new target the next day stuff). Well, I can say it worked wonders. I think I only applied a few main things:
* Simple mind-set => You live once, make what you can of it. (means nothing to worry about, have as much of fun as possible etc)
* Be succesful educationally (for me this was to educate myself, so I applied for a school of a master-degree)
* Improve sexual skills (I was seriously 1/10 in bed 2 years ago
)
* You think about many things but don´t to them? ACTION IS THE FUCKING KEY-WORD. You can read 100 articles on this forum a day, save them as word-docs, memorize them but it helps fuck all if you´t try it for real.
So why am I back here you ask? Well, to continue. I got myself a girlfriend. Started to improve my sexual skills and I must admit, to have a girlfriend I felt like the king lol. I applied some other things from this forum dealing with relationships, so summarize briefly:
* Don´t be needy
* The one who cares less, has the fucking power
* Occasionally buy some gifts/do some fun/surprise your girlfriend (whooo sexy time
)
* You live only once, make what you can of it
* Broes before hoes.
Status today? We have been together for 2years+ and still have sex (heard some bad stories out there!). Now to the dark side...
When we got together my gf had been in a previous relationship for 1 year with the fucking don juan (ye, I shouldnt say that and so on, but to be honest, my looks cant be compared to his
). I may have been her "pillow" after him breaking up with her, but I joined the relationship to improve my sexual skills so can´t really complain lol !
Long story short, she ended up sharing nude pictures with over the web, talk dirty over the web and what-not. Hell, they may have hooked up for all I know, but heres comes the shock: I DIDNT BREAK UP WITH HER!!! Hell, she was almost my first real sexual experience and she did look good from behind (you get it, no?). A few months ago she has started to becoming a really good friend with one of my "friends" where I live and me, him and my gf and some friends hang out 2-3 times a week so it really sucks because I think back on what happened with er ex. Once a cheater, always a cheater, no?
Well today she has gone from being really sexy to an average woman. She has put on weight (she´s not fat, but she´s abit over average), but I must admit, her looks really appeal to me. I must be honest with myself tho, I don´t look as good as her myself (face) and I have put on some weight too but here comes the "BUILDING AN ATTRACTIVE LIFESTYLE" part.
I am quite sure she will hook up with that "new" guy soon, because it´s the same riddle as last time (with her ex). Does it suck? YES. Does it help me being bitter and come here complaining? NO. Im going to improve my fucking life and become better than this other guy. HELL YE. In a year this WILL happen with my life:
1) IM GOING TO FUCKING TRAIN MY BODY MINIMUM 4 TIMES A WEEK AND BE PROUD NEXT SUMMER WALKING ONLY WITH SHORTS!
2) IM GOING TO FUCKING NAIL THIS EDUCATION!
3) IM GOING TO FUCKING STILL IMPROVE MY SEXUAL SKILLS WITH MY CURRENT GF, UNTIL SHE HOOKS UP WITH THIS OTHER GUY/I FIND A NEW GIRL
4) IM GOING TO PRIORITIZE BROES BEFORE HOES MORE THAN I HAVE DONE THE PAST YEAR
You will se me here come 19th june 2012. I will be a completely new person. THANKS!
You are free to comment and come with opinions on what I should improve.
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