I don 't have any friends. I lose touch with all the people in college. I am very much alone. I need to meet new people. What must I do? How do you make friends?

go out man, socialize, meet some guys, friends, and then some girls.
nthn is gona change if you sit home hoping for something to happen !

I am a worker. I spend my days from 9 to 7 doing programming for a company. Where do I meet girls?

awesome !
after 7, go home, shower, chill, go out 9 - 10, club, bar, have a drink with a friend chill, meet some chicks

try that out ! thats what i suggest.

keep in mind, there is always a time and place to meet them.

enjoy

Join a gym, or an evening class or something. Listen and talk to people there, listen more than you talk. Invite people around to your place without trying to get anything from them in return. Become an open and receptive person.

Try and have more fun.

Good luck.

I am currently reading the book "never eat alone" - its great for networking and making friends.

I found the best way to go about it is like picking up women. if your out TRYING to make friends, it comes off try hard. But if your out having a good time, the people would chose to be your friend.

Instead of asking yourself, "why don't i have any friends ?" think about "whats fun that I am going to do tonight." Live a cool lifestyle outside of work that other people would want to be apart of. Find accomplishments to be proud of. Have a life that people would want to know you, then find friends, its a whole lot easier.

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The hardest and most crucial part about making friends is motivation. You really, really have to want it bad or it's not going to happen. It's called a social life for a reason, and any kind of LIFE takes major dedication.

It's true that trying to hard to fit in for the sake of fitting in comes off as needy. Instead, be indirect by finding a scene or passion outside of work you want to devote to. That way you can try hard to be part of that, but being around the same people all the time get you in with them too.

Live in a dorm or with a bunch of roomies. Best way to socialize and get used to talking to people just about anything.

Pick up a sport. I learned to Ice Skate a few years ago and then took some classes for novice hockey players, now I play in a beginner league and am one of the best players out of around 80. All in a span of two and a half years.

Also go to a gym, start lifting weights and eating healthy. You will feel better about yourself right off the bat if you stick to a routine.

so its all good and well being told to go out and all that but if you're going out to find (make) friends you're gonna have to game them in a similar way to girls.

i'd suggest you go somewhere you are likely to find dudes with similar interested to you and then essentially chat up one of the guys like:

''hey do you know where... sorry i had that exact same watch but i lost it diving'' or something like that and start up a conversation about how hes an awesome guy because he's similar to you just remember you're not going for a k/f close lol!

or go to a night club and ask a guy if he wouldnt mind being your wingman with a couple of chicks, if it goes well screw it you just got laid if it goes poorly you got something to talk about

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