Hey there. Theres gonna be two parts to this post.. The first one being:

We've all been asked by girls or hinted at asking what we do in our spare time..

This can be a little bit of a killer and leave you listing a few boring activities.. or it could be a prime time for you to say some cocky/funny stuff that helps you to be set aside from the normal AFC. You can even just insert this kinda stuff into your conversations.

Talk about your favourite subjects, books you have read (AFC fluff talk...=boredom)

What about writing a blog? Is that an attractive way to spend your time?

What do you guys say in these situations? I sometimes reply with a very masculine activity followed by a very feminine one... (the second being a joke)
For example:
Drinking games/Yoga
Boxing/Floristry
Playing fifa with the lads/ making home-made pesto

Secondly,
Making interesting conversation and being viewed as the AMOG around your male friends. This is especially aimed at college/school students, or those who attend sport classes and evening classes.
Personally, I have found tiredness/grumpyness etc really has a negative effect on my personality and things like responsibilty make me less fun to be around. I often dont talk and socialise JUST because I cant be bothered, or cant think of antythign funny to say. I also find it quite hard to find things funny around my piers. I might just be more mature, or im not trying hard enough?
People usually joking around, and I can sense people get bored sitting next to me etc... wheres a year ago i was good fun and always the centre of the joke. (This was before I went through a prolonged period of anti-socalness, tiredness, and hardcore PC Gaming).

I think people I used to be friends with may have gone off me because of my lack of game with girls, which i intent to change. But thats harder when you're not being sociable with people your around all day, and having cool guys to go out with....

Ive actually started to think doing some naughty shit and getting into trouble can help me to be more playful, but its hard since theres pressure for exams etc. What do you think about this?

Besides sleeping more and putting more effort into socializing, does anyone have tips for being more fun for conversation and joking at school? I dont want to do it by gossip and vulgarness or even bullying people... That route is BOUND to fail if you get out of control with it.

Anyway, post out. Cheers for reading. Comment your thoughts!

well im in the same situation as you (college pressure, lack of cool friends, PC gaming) and my *personal* idea about the "change your lifestyle to make it more attractive" is that is taken way too serious. For example i dont like extreme sports or sports at all, i go to the gym sure but is more like an obligation than anything else. My point being at the end of the day my happy place in behind my PC, and i dont think it is HV to force my tastes just to "get women".

My personal method? Is not about what you say you do is cool, is about how you say it. I have been in set with 3 HB7-8s and they were listening facinated as i relate them a D&D sesion i had that morning. If you are in roleplaying (no, not than kind of roleplaying get your head out gutter) practice directing it really helps your storytelling and improv.
You could read the last book of mystery it has very good social advices.