Quick Facts: 1.) AFC 2.) Recently moved to another country

Being that I am an AFC. Can anyone suggest how can I make friends and where ( ain't going to school anymore by the way). I want to focus on improving my social life first than learning the game. Now my problem is how do I approach and what do I say? I don't wanna just talk to someone and say I'm new here and trying to meet people because it sounds needy. I have no problems joining some lessons / activities; my problem is what do I say; or at the mall how do I approach and what to say. opinions are very much appreciated. Thanks guys!

I am by no means an expert on this subject, so take my advice with a grain of salt. You say you want to build your social circle, then learn to game. In all honesty learning the game is more than just bagging hot chicks, it also helps create a social circle. Try going out, approaching strangers, best bet is working on your day game, use a coffee shop line or something, for example "Excuse me, do you know someplace close by that serves coffee other than a Starbucks?" when she tells you "Thanks, you've been really helpful, I just moved here so I'm still getting used to the area, my name is (insert name)" tweak it how you want, like I said I'm no expert.

It only sounds needy if you say it in an AFC needy way. Say it matter-of-factly or upbeat-ly, be cheerful and friendly about it. People don't have a problem with showing someone new around.

thanks for the advice guys.

I'll probably do day game as spyder said and try out different ways in approaching people to know what's the right one for me. Do you guys think I should talk to people on the street or focus more on going to bookstores, coffee shops, etc. Because I think its hard to start on stopping people on the street.

I would say both, and to talk to them on the street you don't necessarily have to stop them, why not walk with them a bit, that way it shows that you care enough not to make them late

You most likely wont come accross as needy if your a fun cool guy just out to meet people ,ive found that most people want to talk and make friends no matter what they look like old,young,alpha,afc etc... I at times kinda think that every one that I walk past that is nervous shy or in their own world is in the matrix and all of us puas are out of the matrix and we now have the gift to snap people out of it which they usually want.

i agree completly with all of the above. just be yourself, and work your day game. spyders "canned-opened" he just gave you will work very well, because if your new, and dont know much of anything about your new home, you will instinctually appear a tad nervious. this is a perfect cover! so dont worry abotu being nervious! lol maybe take a book with you, that way it looks like your looking for a coffeeshop to sit and read in.

you can also narrow this down a little by doing this in your neighbourghood. "i just moved into the neighbourghoood and im trying to get to know the area" is also good, because your opening her up to ask where your from and TADA! insta convo starter. and dont be afraid to approach men, and women. of course you dont wanna hit on the men, but it will help you overcome your nervousness in the general approach.

you can also look for social events going on, like a karaoke night or something. maybe find a local coffee shop or bar, and let the bartender know your new in town. i have had bartenders and people take me around and introduce me to people solely coz i was new in town. (note:i live in toronto, but moved to ottawa, calgary edmonton and vancouver over a couple years travelling)

Hairspray is just a glue with a silicone that makes it water resistant.You can try vinegar but other than that you are dealing with a glue and you may be best served finding a chemical remover from the home hardware department.






-------------------------------------
Leather Beanbags

_________________
LeatherBeanbags

ummm... what the hell...

lol what