| Ive been reading about pickup occasionally for few months now, and I feel like I do not have a chance to start doing anything. Ive read few methods, and so far I think Gunwitch method is most logical for me.
I would like some advice from more experienced guys on where to start. But first, I want to tell you my situation...
Im 21 and im 180cm tall , heavy but athletic, and consider myself as good looking.
In high school (when I started thinking about sex) I wasn't picking up anything, but I had a lot of contact with girls (half of my class were girls). I got quite a number of IOIs and had fun with some of them, but was never close to girls, and I never had any real girl friends. When girls approached me with intention of getting closer to me, I was acting all tough, and when I rejected a girl like that I was feeling like I won... I had a social circle of friends outside school, but they were all guys, and girls were hanging out with us often, but I was kind of ignoring them...
But since I finished high school 2 years ago, I enrolled in almost all-male university. I got out of that social circle for few reasons. Now I have several (male) friends that do not hang out each other, so I usually hang out with one guy at a time. I have very little contact with female population, outside family...
Since I started reading about PUA few months ago, I was thinking of doing something I read there myself. But its hard to do it when you don't get to talk to girls. I go to university where there are very few females, and annoying nerds are swarming them. I go to my boxing gym where there is no females at all save for the cleaning lady. I hang out with one of my friends about every other day but we do nothing except drinking and talking. And I hang out at home playing games and lifting weights, and obviously there are no girls there... Sometimes I go to a brothel to fulfill my sexual desire, but that is in no way a permanent solution...
Can someone who has been in a similar situation advice me on how to "break the stalemate" and bring some girls into my life?
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