Hey guys, i haven't really posted much before but I'm an avid reader. My pua skills are coming along but one thing i have trouble with is friend zoning girls. I recently started a college course and I'm going to be around the same people for 3 years potentially.

I game the girls from campus casually and I get interest and attraction but I have trouble converting them into friends that I can hang with casually not as a real target. Game is how I socialize as I'm sure it is for many of you and I want control over the level of interaction I have with different people, as my aim is not to sleep with everyone but make some lasting friendships with females.

My thoughts for this are that I want girls as DHV friends when I go clubbing and other activities. I like to rock up with some sort of social proof.

What are your thoughts guys?

Is this the right angle?

So most of the girls you know wish to get sexual with you instead of friend zoning you? Well first of all,it would be a priviledge in my opinion, but I understand that you also want girlfriends as a DHV in social gatherings. I never had the honour of friend zoning girls before (because I don't game on chicks that I'm not attracted to), but I believe it should be rather simple.

Like how girls friend zone you by saying things like "oh we make such great friends!", you can easily do the same to them. Give them hints that you like her as a friend, and soon enough it will catch up on her. If not, then you have to tell her straight up. However, since you wish to keep them as friends to hang out with in bars n stuff, you can open up the opportunity that you can still go out with her, and that it would be cool. If you played your game real tight and she is totally into you, she might even follow you around like an AFC would follow an HB8! Of course, I do not really have much experience on this matter, but this is totally plausible.

Anyhow, the easiest way to get her into the friend zone is not to game her in the first place! It might be second nature to you, but just try to loosen up your game to those you are not interested in, else things would get complicated!

@fenixz: How is it possible to meet chicks when in our new world girls interpret EVERYTHING as hitting on her? If you game her, you have the choice of where to put her, but if you "loosen up your game", you will not be taken into account as anything for her. "He's AFC. Done. Next."

@topic I also would like to see some tips on how to get female friends. The ones who I game with success don't want to ljbf and the ones I talk to, even without intentions, don't want either to become friends or of course think I was trying to hit on them
What's going on with the girls?

Agreeing with the last comment.
Women are constantly putting straight men through a whole bunch of tests and you either choose to pass them or fail them.
-Pass them and there is some attraction naturally
-Fail them and get passed off as an AFC

Ive just been through a weird breakup so i think I'm over thinking just about everything.
Maybe ill just lay off women for a little while and work on my social circle.

I have saved this thread in my favorites and want to bump it. Maybe there is someone clever enough to share their clever thoughts with us.

Especially to what I wrote: Bump

its impossible to be good friends with a girl unless you sleep with her. suposedly. why not try and have a few FWB? but yeah its good to have lots of friends men and wonmen. bigger social circle = more power and more potential to meet new people.