i have a lot of friends, although there all boring. I'd say i'm one of the 'popular' people at my school although the people at my school they never ever seem to leave my area. I'd travel anywhere to meet new people but i'm currently lost on how to do it. Also, i wouldn't mind going places on my own, but i always seem to look at this as a DLV in a way as if I've got no friends so my confidence kind of lacks.

I want to find friends that will travel places, go everywhere and do things. Although, no one seems to want to do that, so i'm wondering, whats the best thing to do to meet new people?

Id rather not join a sports team though as i'm not a sporty person, and i already go to the gym as well.

Im kinda doing this at the moment mate. The first step is always the hardest once you get on with it, it becomes easier!

What I did was get a part time job reviewing clubs and bars etc (I dont get paid for this in cash but I do get VIP arse licking which is priceless!) so I have an excuse and a fall back if anyone wants to know what I do. This gave me an excuse to go out solo and meet new people and also to sarge solo! New friends, sarging, new experiences! triple whammy!

How you push yourself into it is upto you, but I must say going out solo takes balls mate, dont you farking DARE think of it as a DLV, you dont need 10 people holding your hand to have fun, just circle, talk to anyone - chat random bollocks to anyone men women and have a good time they will pick up on your vibe. Great place is to talk to people at bars waiting for drinks, they are already predispoitioned to talk because they need to be entertained while they wait. If people are being responsive buy them rounds then dont hang around or ask for drinks in return, but move onto the next set of people, trust me they will react positively since your not being some stranger clingy bastard, come back to them later. Make sure you remember names!

The objective is to be some fun, cool guy who is great to hangout with/drink with and not some social needy reject.

Ideally try target regulars at location X and go back there at another date a few times and 'bump' into them, if you remember their names this process speeds up shitloads, but once you have seen them a few times you have a new social launch pad to work from! Explore from it, add em on face book, goto their parties, always be cool, always be friendly to their friends regardless if they are twats or not, it all adds up!

This is a time investment though!