I dislike being at home and I feel like my soul is getting drained while I am at the house, lol. What to do at home that can be productive and can also be attractive? What do you guys usually do at home? Thanks for the help.

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This may sound way metro, but I do several things:

1. Building character
-Start and maintain garden (fruits, veggies, etc). Its a good conversation topic and some gals like the fact that you can grow and maintain something in your life
-Read non-PUA books to get more insight in life. "Infinite Jest" is a great start
-Watch stand up comics so you can adapt their jokes into your routine
-Join a dog/cat rescue org like the SPCA.
-Learn to cook. Build yourself up to being able to make three signature dishes (not mac-n-cheese or popcorn but more like Pasta Carbonara). Someone in your family can probably help with this.
-Take dance lessons. Highly recommend west coast swing, two-step, club cha cha and salsa.

2. Building appearance
-Pluck and shape eyebrows
-Manscaping
-Join a cheap gym like planet fitness and work out
-Read GQ magazine for fashion tips

3. Building confidence
-Write down 5 of your lifes goals, pick one, and start working towards it. You dont have to achieve it to build conf necessarily, but the journey alone should help.
-Doing the above 1 and 2 should help with 3.

Thats what I would do. YMMV.

Thank you gunner! These are really useful tips.

Two other things that really help eat up time, are highly productive and DHV in a big way are:

Art:
If you have any sort of inherant artistic ability, buy a sketch book and go to town! Try to get creative and focus on objects, scenes that define or inspire you in life. Once you have grasped those ideas and put them on a piece of paper, move to a canvas, sketch out your scenario, then experiment with colors and make the art yours. When you hang a piece of artwork on your wall that you painted and that means something to you, it makes a girl literally wet. I have several of mine hanging on my walls and they're always excellent conversation pieces. as always, girls are turned on by emotions so when you explain your feelings through art, this is an amazing tactic. also, make sure you use bright, extravagant colors. chicks are just too easy.

Music:
Pick up a cheap acoustic guitar or some kind of other musical instrument and either buy an intro book and teach yourself some chords and /or notes, or take lessons every week. Lots of practice is necessary to become an expert at an instrument, so use your time at home for that. Plus, dave matthews on the guitar also makes panties wet. Proven.

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Thanks for all the replies Gunner and Rays, I'd be sure to apply them in my life. Everyone in the community really need to focus on lifestyle more.

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Yeah this is a cool thread. For me, I play music...I also joined a gym and go almost every day...you can also do shit instead of staying home like going mountain biking at your local reservoir or pick up basketball at your local court etc. These are ways to make friends as well. You should find hobbies that you can dig on...One thing you shouldn't do is spend all your time learning to pick up chicks...It will make you weird and most pua's or aspiring pua's will just confuse you and encourage you with methods that cause you to loose site of who you are and as a result make you less comfy around women...

Clean!

Women like clean men, and clean places. Everything should be clean: the bathroom, the kitchen, every corner. Even if a woman doesn't consciously pay attention to it - and many women do - subconsciously she will like being in your place because it is clean and not cramped.

Plus, a clean unscattered place is healthy for your mind and body. You'll probably find yourself feeling less stressed and getting sick less.

Last, when your place is always clean you always know that if you happen to bring someone back to your place its clean. You don't have to pull the old cheesy line "sorry about the mess." I think little things like that do wonders for the mentality. Subconsciously, you know that you are always ready to go, ready to bring women home, ready for action.

dirty house and not having good overal physicall appreance/or being unfit (physically & mentally )is an unforgiven sin for a PUA.