| The 2 Types of Men
Contrary to popular belief, there are not many types of men. Sure, we all have different interests, qualities, personalities etc....but when it comes to female attraction I believe there are only 2 types of men.
1st is the Average Frustrated Chumps and Pick Up Artists.
This is the group that most men fall under to some extent. Most men are too much of a nice guy and lack self respect when it comes to women. The smaller half of these men are pick up artists who attract women only through games, routines, stories, negs, role playing, cold reading and other ways that hide their true identity to women.
Both of these types of men fail with women. However, they fail with women in 2 different ways.
1. The “AFC” nice guy fails to attract, have sex with, or develop relationships with women. They fail at most if not everything with women.
2. The “Pick Up Artist” fails at developing relationships with women. He may attract women, sleep with women, and live a life that a nice AFC could only dream of, but still lack long term relationship potential. This is due to the fact that the PUA tends to hide himself through routines and stories (some of which are made up) that contributed to the very attraction from the woman that started the relationship to begin with!
2nd is the Alpha Male
This group consists of men who are attractive to almost every woman they encounter. They easily attract women, have sex with women and develop long term relationships with women (if they so choose to have a relationship).
People have mistakenly put Pick Up Artists on this group thinking that attraction and sex equal being successful with women. However, true success with women is attraction, sex and relationships that result from being yourself. Alpha Males truly are “being themselves”. They don’t act, do routines or anything like that to attract a woman, yet still manage to sleep with more women than most men dream of due to being a guy who has cultivated a lifestyle that is attractive.
These men are either rich, famous, high status, or great looking. The most successful “naturals” have all of these qualities.
The only thing natural about “naturals” is that women are attracted to money and looks due to the well known evolutionary reasons of survival and replication as Mystery has made known to most of the community.
However, when a guy learns this, he refuses to better himself and instead learns routines and other games used to demonstrate higher value instead of truly becoming higher value!
The solution is to become an Alpha Male with genuine value! The solution is to stop chasing women. The solution is be willing to go without women for a while to develop your looks, finances, and confidence.
Instead of faking confidence, we should become confident! Confidence isn’t something you can achieve through staying where you are at in life and telling yourself you are confident. Confidence is a result of self improvement.
I believe all men should stop being an AFC, and stop being a PUA.
I believe we should all strive to become an Alpha Male by improving our lives all together instead of chasing and gaming women. Then we kind experience the “natural” success with women.
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