| Ok so i've been in the game for a year, more or less. In that time my pick up style has grown leaps and bounds, but its remained relatively separate from the rest of my life. I sort of insisted on this, I go to a semi large college, and although its easy to meet new people there, just because its so easy to meet people its hard to leave behind a reputation. I would say for the most part people have no idea i'm secretly a player in my free time, although people are starting to catch on a little, especially since i introduced my friend to this high end model i picked up so she could do a shoot for his tshirt line. (by the way, its the best feeling in the world to have a drop dead 10 call you amazing. i hope everyone on here has a change to experience that) But thats not really the issue.
I am now having my two worlds collide a bit... I have a stalker ex from my beginning pick up days when i overcompensated, and she has actually reappeared in my life by total surprise, after a VERY complicated situation where she said she loved me, i said lets just be friends and she had about 10 nervous breakdowns, i said leave me alone freak youre psycho, and yeah pretty much cut all forms of communication. And she now attends my school, and is constantly trying to get ahold of me to demand i talk to her, saying things like "I LOVED YOU!" and other really crazy stuff like that. By the way this chick moved across the country to be with me, and i might need a restraining order.
Also i had a recent pick up that turned sour soon after because she caught on there was other girls in my life. I gave her a bullshit line as damage control but i need a new method of integrating pua into my life without treating it like some secret i have to keep, perhaps learning an attitude in dealing with the conflict that arises. I know some guys just become complete douches to keep it up, and it works but thats not how i want people to see me. Unfortunately i have a few girls who have officially dubbed themselves regretful ex's and "want to get back what they lost". I actually had that last girl who refused to talk to me call to wish me a happy new years a week late.
I really think as easy as it would be to just leave the past in the past, i doubt its going to stay put for long so i need a new game plan in dealing with this. I think many women are starting to deem me the one that got away, and i might start considering using a less emotional approach so as to avoid this in the future. For now though, my question is: What do i do to deal with these oh-so complicated situations, and is there an attitude other than complete douche that works for fearless integration of PUA into daily life?
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